The depth of this issue is not as haunting as the title. The motives are (potentially) harmless. I have an average body, nothing shameful, not skinny, no belly, balanced arms and all. I'm just boring 😂 but hey, it really bugs me out when she does this. She says it's to motivate me to be super, but I feel like it's the wrong kind of motivation because I end up feeling worthless or hopeless because I know what she wants and I'm not that. I did man up about it and yes I look a little better now but I really know that I will never get to the level she wants and she will continue doing this. Is it even normal?