What if she slept with a lot of guys before you?

[SnowyOwl]

It'd be kind of disgusting if they do... Guys are ok with hook up culture (most that I've seen). So if you expect girls to expect girls to give you 2 night flings, don't expect to marry a virgin. That's so hypocritical.
Girl, whether or not you fell into the hook up culture, if you feel like you've made mistikes and you are aware of them, and you have grown as a person, and you feel ready for a steady relationship, be honest with this person. Tell him that your vision now is really to have a steady relationship (if that's the case) and that you are ready to talk things through and make things work (if you really are). Communication is key to success in long term relations. And always be ready to listen, and try to understand the others perspective. Why does he respond in a certain way or not. Whatever his response is, pay close attention, so you know what kind of person you are dealing with. Try to understand them very well before deciding how to proceed after they respond.
If he seems very close minded about it it might not be worth it to stay, because à close minded person will bring back the issue for example if they ever get mad. It'd be perpetual tension... Hopefully not your case,... Anyway, good luck

[Anonymous]

It depends on the girl. I'm more likely to be suspicious of a girl who has had a high number of sexual partners because it says something about the way she views sex itself. As in she views it as not a big deal.

Something I've heard these types of girl say is "the best way to get over a guy is to get under another". It's like their basic instinct when things go wrong is to have sex with a different guy.

They also tend to be overly friendly with men, in a way that women with fewer partners are not. Women with fewer partners are usually much more suspicious of men who approach them because by nature they want to avoid any guy who might be a player. Unlike the girl who has had many partners.

Okay. What happens when we have an argument? What happens when you're out with your friends, you've had a few drinks, and a cute guy comes over to talk to you, and you're friendly with him? What happens if both of those things happen at the same time? Am I gonna find out that just like before you ended up on someone else's dick, then you're gonna say "I didn't know what I was doing, it was a mistake"

That's the fear. Call it insecurity all you like. Ask me "who hurt me". I've been cheated on before by a girl who fits that description, and it ain't happening again. That's why I take all of this into consideration. Why wouldn't I? I'd be stupid not to.

I might try to give her the benefit of the doubt, maybe. If so I'd watch closely to see if she really has changed and how she behaved/spoke about certain things would determine whether I'd stick around or not.

I do that anyway because I'm well aware that many women will lie about their past and cover it up to get guys to take them more seriously, and they're worse than women who tell the truth, but there are ways you can tell.

[blutwolfe]

Well if it's triple digits then nope going no contact, at pink anon 25-29, if it's like under 25 guys it wouldn't bother me, but anything more is like cmon now there's gonna be serious trust issues, cause how can you be sure she won't have issues again

[Yads_Is_Back]

We should respect everybody, but not all decisions should be respected. I think that sums it up.

[Ripper_E]

Depends her story.
It would be a red flag, but it also depends on how I feel about her. That would be something I would not like but if I feel like she is a really good person, maybe.
I know a woman who is really flirty but one of the nicest/sweetest women you would meet. She is extremely promiscuous and addicted to sex. She makes appointments with men to have sex with her, most of them she doesn't care about but she gets it almost daily.

[ThiccBoai]

She says they are mistakes herself. That means that she knows what went wrong and what's something she doesn't want anymore (I assume). After talking about it for a bit I'll be fine with it. I've also done things in my past that not everyone might accept just like that. So I understand how it is to have a past and how much you can change

[oncpl]

First of all I will silently explore my own past. If I have been having sex with girls, why should I be worried or disappointed on my girlfriend's past. It is praise worthy that she has come up with truth.

[Marcuslrh]

That would not bother me your with me for a fresh start and that's all that matters and I would respect her for being honest about it would be a hard thing to share for some

[Anonymous]

She would be gone.
Every female who has a slut phase tries to excuse it by saying “I made some mistakes” which is bullshit.
Making poor choices over and over is a character trait.

a relationship requires a man to invest a lot of time, emotion, and money... so why would we invest in lower quality person when there are quality people out there?

[normalice]

Id think less of her for thinking it was a mistake. Such insecurities aren't my thing.

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

I’d still get to know her. She can probably teach me things with her experience.

[Wise4myage]

I can' let that bother me, because it happened before I met her. So why could I judge her?

[Ryan510]

That wouldn't affect my opinion of her at all. In fact, it might mean she's better in bed, which would be an upside.

[Anonymous]

I would think that she wasn't the right person for me. I am a virgin waiting for marriage.

[Anonymous]

Nymphos: nah!
Satyrs: nah!
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[gandolph3]

if I don't judge her past she shouldn't judge mine, I don't care about her past

[KrakenAttackin]

She would instantly transform from a girlfriend to a fuck buddy. You can't turn a whore into a housewife.

[Celtero]

Do I feel emotionally attracted to sluts? No.

[Archerer]

More than me? I'd be impressed

[Iron_Man]

I’m not interested in that

[Anonymous]

yeah, good sex. plus its in her past. doesn't mean she's disloyal.

[In_Trance]

Her past is none of my business.

[joeldalton]

I’d bang her but I ain’t marrying her.