Why are women so attracted to me?

Question

I am 5'6 & always find out many women are attracted to me (like a lot). I don't try to attract them, What confuses me is, many women, based on experience, would be put off by height to have such strong interest in me, which is fine, because I'm not expecting, or feeling I'm owed anything & am happy either way already. It just confuses me & I want to understand why so many women can be so attracted to someone so short, even when they first meet me & haven't seen my personality in-depth & height, from my understanding, would automatically disqualify me on looks alone from girls finding me "hot".

Answer 1

BaronLaCroix

Xper 1

Why not just ask a sampling of these many women directly. If the attraction can lead to healthy connections it may be your mission to bring happiness to the lives of these many women. Not a bad part to play in the grand scheme of things. Anyway, asking them is the way to go.

Answer 2

Anonymous

Okay so I’ve had a crush that was about your height, and boy let me tell you, he was the most gorgeous person I’ve ever seen. (To add he was also kind, cultured, talented and intelligent) but you must be gorgeous

Answer 3

devilish-cutie | 578 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

beacuse hight isn't the only criteria concerning looks
and beacuse hight isn't neccessarily a dealbreaker

Asker

23 d
I know it's not a dealbreaker overall. What confuses me because I don't do "fashion", just basic clothes, is the amount of looks & interest I get from women, even when they don't know me well, or I've just met them & how many I end up finding out are attracted to me. I don't mean women can't be attracted to short guys on personality,, just the amount, even when I just met them, or before we talk, catch them staring,

I can't understand why so many girls would be interested w/o knowing me since I'm not tall, which, in my understanding, would automatically eliminate interest, on looks alone, to many girls, which I'm fine with, because I have a lot of other good things I love about myself, I'm kind of introverted but still confident, so attention isn't importnat & they don't owe it, the whole thing just confuses me.
devilish-cutie

23 d
you talk like hight and personality are the only criteria
there is so much to looks, like your face features, nose, lips, eyes, your body, ass, abs etc.
generally your overall energy, manerism etc. so many things that could make someone more attractive...
Asker

23 d
Based on what I hear from women, on & of GAG, always got the impression height was, largely, at the center of physical attractiveness not to all, but many women, meaning women can find a tall person ugly, but are far more unlikely to find a short person hot if that single feature (height) is missing.

This is what I'm trying to understand, basically my perception has been many women can't look at a guy & think "he's so hot" if height isn't present, yet my experience seems to be the opposite, added I don't dress, look, or act attractive, charismatic, etc.

If women think I'm ugly I don't get upset, cuz I've got many other good things to be happy about, but sometimes I feel like a 6ft model sometimes the way women show interest, which further confuses everything I've been led to believe & understand.
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devilish-cutie

23 d
You put too much emphasis on height. i generally dont understand why bother with this so much. Noone is perfect. And you only need one girl to like you for you. Ideally hight is important but it cannot be more important than 50 other reasons you may like someone. The only time its a dealbreaker its usually if the guy is shorter than a girl.

Answer 4

Asker

I know it's not a dealbreaker overall. What confuses me because I don't do "fashion", just basic clothes, is the amount of looks & interest I get from women, even when they don't know me well, or I've just met them & how many I end up finding out are attracted to me. I don't mean women can't be attracted to short guys on personality,, just the amount, even when I just met them, or before we talk, catch them staring,

I can't understand why so many girls would be interested w/o knowing me since I'm not tall, which, in my understanding, would automatically eliminate interest, on looks alone, to many girls, which I'm fine with, because I have a lot of other good things I love about myself, I'm kind of introverted but still confident, so attention isn't importnat & they don't owe it, the whole thing just confuses me.

Answer 5

devilish-cutie

you talk like hight and personality are the only criteria
there is so much to looks, like your face features, nose, lips, eyes, your body, ass, abs etc.
generally your overall energy, manerism etc. so many things that could make someone more attractive...

Answer 6

Asker

Based on what I hear from women, on & of GAG, always got the impression height was, largely, at the center of physical attractiveness not to all, but many women, meaning women can find a tall person ugly, but are far more unlikely to find a short person hot if that single feature (height) is missing.

This is what I'm trying to understand, basically my perception has been many women can't look at a guy & think "he's so hot" if height isn't present, yet my experience seems to be the opposite, added I don't dress, look, or act attractive, charismatic, etc.

If women think I'm ugly I don't get upset, cuz I've got many other good things to be happy about, but sometimes I feel like a 6ft model sometimes the way women show interest, which further confuses everything I've been led to believe & understand.

Answer 7

devilish-cutie

You put too much emphasis on height. i generally dont understand why bother with this so much. Noone is perfect. And you only need one girl to like you for you. Ideally hight is important but it cannot be more important than 50 other reasons you may like someone. The only time its a dealbreaker its usually if the guy is shorter than a girl.

Answer 8

Anonymous

Maybe your personality or the way you come off to women attracts them.

Answer 9

Anonymous

This is not true, you're just asking this because you're insecure about your height and you want girls to reassure you that it is not relevant.

Asker

23 d
I'm fine with my hieight. I have a 147 IQ, no depression, anxiety, etc., muscular & have asked myself many times if given the chance to trade places w. many taller guys I know & there are many times I'd 100% choose to be me, because I have a lot of other things I love about myself.

Apologies for having different perception about my motivations (behind this question) than you; someome who barely knows me, takes little interest to understand another person, yet talks as if their judgements about someone they barely know are absolute fact.
Asker

23 d
As a side note, try to reach out to others (show some empathy & compassion) before narcisistically passing judgement & condemning their perspective, motivations, etc. w/o motivation or interest to understand someone else's POV (in short, I'd respect your response more, even if it disagrees with me, if you were less arrogant in your behavior & took an interest in others before judging, not only talk down to them)

Answer 10

Asker

I'm fine with my hieight. I have a 147 IQ, no depression, anxiety, etc., muscular & have asked myself many times if given the chance to trade places w. many taller guys I know & there are many times I'd 100% choose to be me, because I have a lot of other things I love about myself.

Apologies for having different perception about my motivations (behind this question) than you; someome who barely knows me, takes little interest to understand another person, yet talks as if their judgements about someone they barely know are absolute fact.

Answer 11

Asker

As a side note, try to reach out to others (show some empathy & compassion) before narcisistically passing judgement & condemning their perspective, motivations, etc. w/o motivation or interest to understand someone else's POV (in short, I'd respect your response more, even if it disagrees with me, if you were less arrogant in your behavior & took an interest in others before judging, not only talk down to them)

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