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Boys: I still don't have a girlfriend 😐

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I suppose this is exactly why people say, that men need to be the leaders (or dominant) if they want a girlfriend.
Correct!
I kinda miss the times, where women were women and not sucked into the phones and instagram.
Get this - many of them actually prefer to sit at home on their phones than going out to a beach on a hot sunny day. Kinda true story.
I mean this could have been
But this is happening instead
Where have these women gone (down below)?
@Unit1 There is 1 thing I am very certain of. They don't get nearly as much attention in real life as they do online. I know plenty of girls from the gym or from my old schools who are very quiet and uninteresting in real life, but show off themselves on IG only to get compliments on there. Their phones open a gateway to unlimited ego boosts. They go on dating apps out of "boredom" just to string dudes along and feel wanted.
There is this 1 girl who used to come to my gym. I never saw men pay attention to her for all the times she came to the gym, but as soon as she's home, she posted a selfie on IG only to get over a hundred 'likes' and many simps drooling over her.
And trust me, my friend. The girls who I've slept with or dated, I've never showered them with validation like those simps, and still manage to get them in bed. Same goes for my current girlfriend I've met on a dating app. She is used to dudes chasing her, but I let her do the chasing. Since she saw I can hold interesting conversations and don't seem to care if things work or don't work out between us (so no desperation). She dropped her simps in an instant and focused on me. Now she doesn't have any simp orbiters around her at all.
I can see your point. However for me I need reciprocation and "signs of interest" to keep things alive (and to make sure, that I am not wasting my time) - that means I compliment her, she compliments me... Doesn't matter who initiates it. There's showing interest and there's being a SIMP. It's hard to explain the difference but the end goal is to keep a girl (or girlfriend) happy. I have heard numerous times how they love with their ears and I find it to be true.
But it's easy to do. If a girl has no interest, I'm gone. Simple as that. I will keep repeating that until a girl holds me from doing that. We'll know when we'll get there.
Yes, always keep the mindset of no 'interest = nexting her'. In my case, I flirt online through teasing and being "smooth" (as they call it) and plan dates early. I can give you an example. When I talk to them online, I tell them "Let's chat here a bit. And maybe, I will take you out on a date". Same goes in real life it's much easier to tell if she is interested. If I'm talking to a girl and we are enjoying the convo, I simply throw out the "I know this there is this activity at xxx that I want to try. Let's go together.". If the excuses come, then I drop her. If she is down for it, then I know she is interested.
Correct! That's the way to do it.
But alas, phones are still more interesting to the vast majority of them 😳 And they don't want a boyfriend despite "looking". Just wow.
Too bad, that men have lost their value in relationships whilst SIMPS hand out boyfriend services to the girls, who they don't even know what their favorite color is or to girls, who couldn't care less about him.
It's like the reverse of women giving out sex in order to find a boyfriend.
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