Is this an accurate depiction of women and their signals?

Question

Girls: I am sending him lots of signals but he is not approaching me. Why? What am I doing wrong?
Also Girls:

Is this an accurate depiction of women and their signals?

Meanwhile...
Boys: I still don't have a girlfriend 😐

Also Boys: My NVidia drivers failed to update on my computer. I can't figure out why. Better contact NVidia support.
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I suppose this is exactly why people say, that men need to be the leaders (or dominant) if they want a girlfriend.

Yes

No

Maybe?

Select age and gender to cast your vote:

GirlGuy

Answer 1

TruthBringer

Xper 5

And this is why I don't cold approach women. Many women expect men to be mind readers. We simply aren't. Also, their entire world is online. Phones are their lives. This is why they can't let go of them even in public. There is also this entitlement they hold (you can thank the simps for that). So they often come across as 'busy' or 'uninterested'.

I only approach women who do give off solid signals of interest like looking at me from a distance smiling and also getting closer. Which is almost rare to see a woman do. I had instances where girls 'followed' me around the gym and do their workouts right infront of me. All in hope that I would start off a conversation. I can feel the eyes on me when I do sets. Sometimes even catch them staring.

Unit1

24 d
Correct!
I kinda miss the times, where women were women and not sucked into the phones and instagram.
Get this - many of them actually prefer to sit at home on their phones than going out to a beach on a hot sunny day. Kinda true story.

I mean this could have been

But this is happening instead

Where have these women gone (down below)?
TruthBringer

24 d
@Unit1 There is 1 thing I am very certain of. They don't get nearly as much attention in real life as they do online. I know plenty of girls from the gym or from my old schools who are very quiet and uninteresting in real life, but show off themselves on IG only to get compliments on there. Their phones open a gateway to unlimited ego boosts. They go on dating apps out of "boredom" just to string dudes along and feel wanted.

There is this 1 girl who used to come to my gym. I never saw men pay attention to her for all the times she came to the gym, but as soon as she's home, she posted a selfie on IG only to get over a hundred 'likes' and many simps drooling over her.

And trust me, my friend. The girls who I've slept with or dated, I've never showered them with validation like those simps, and still manage to get them in bed. Same goes for my current girlfriend I've met on a dating app. She is used to dudes chasing her, but I let her do the chasing. Since she saw I can hold interesting conversations and don't seem to care if things work or don't work out between us (so no desperation). She dropped her simps in an instant and focused on me. Now she doesn't have any simp orbiters around her at all.
Unit1

24 d
I can see your point. However for me I need reciprocation and "signs of interest" to keep things alive (and to make sure, that I am not wasting my time) - that means I compliment her, she compliments me... Doesn't matter who initiates it. There's showing interest and there's being a SIMP. It's hard to explain the difference but the end goal is to keep a girl (or girlfriend) happy. I have heard numerous times how they love with their ears and I find it to be true.

But it's easy to do. If a girl has no interest, I'm gone. Simple as that. I will keep repeating that until a girl holds me from doing that. We'll know when we'll get there.
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TruthBringer

24 d
Yes, always keep the mindset of no 'interest = nexting her'. In my case, I flirt online through teasing and being "smooth" (as they call it) and plan dates early. I can give you an example. When I talk to them online, I tell them "Let's chat here a bit. And maybe, I will take you out on a date". Same goes in real life it's much easier to tell if she is interested. If I'm talking to a girl and we are enjoying the convo, I simply throw out the "I know this there is this activity at xxx that I want to try. Let's go together.". If the excuses come, then I drop her. If she is down for it, then I know she is interested.
Unit1

24 d
Correct! That's the way to do it.

But alas, phones are still more interesting to the vast majority of them 😳 And they don't want a boyfriend despite "looking". Just wow.

Too bad, that men have lost their value in relationships whilst SIMPS hand out boyfriend services to the girls, who they don't even know what their favorite color is or to girls, who couldn't care less about him.

It's like the reverse of women giving out sex in order to find a boyfriend.
Dinosaursandanime65

24 d
No it's part of their lives, like Apex is part of mine.

Answer 2

Unit1

Correct!
I kinda miss the times, where women were women and not sucked into the phones and instagram.
Get this - many of them actually prefer to sit at home on their phones than going out to a beach on a hot sunny day. Kinda true story.

I mean this could have been

Is this an accurate depiction of women and their signals?

But this is happening instead

Where have these women gone (down below)?

Answer 3

TruthBringer

@Unit1 There is 1 thing I am very certain of. They don't get nearly as much attention in real life as they do online. I know plenty of girls from the gym or from my old schools who are very quiet and uninteresting in real life, but show off themselves on IG only to get compliments on there. Their phones open a gateway to unlimited ego boosts. They go on dating apps out of "boredom" just to string dudes along and feel wanted.

There is this 1 girl who used to come to my gym. I never saw men pay attention to her for all the times she came to the gym, but as soon as she's home, she posted a selfie on IG only to get over a hundred 'likes' and many simps drooling over her.

And trust me, my friend. The girls who I've slept with or dated, I've never showered them with validation like those simps, and still manage to get them in bed. Same goes for my current girlfriend I've met on a dating app. She is used to dudes chasing her, but I let her do the chasing. Since she saw I can hold interesting conversations and don't seem to care if things work or don't work out between us (so no desperation). She dropped her simps in an instant and focused on me. Now she doesn't have any simp orbiters around her at all.

Answer 4

Unit1

I can see your point. However for me I need reciprocation and "signs of interest" to keep things alive (and to make sure, that I am not wasting my time) - that means I compliment her, she compliments me... Doesn't matter who initiates it. There's showing interest and there's being a SIMP. It's hard to explain the difference but the end goal is to keep a girl (or girlfriend) happy. I have heard numerous times how they love with their ears and I find it to be true.

But it's easy to do. If a girl has no interest, I'm gone. Simple as that. I will keep repeating that until a girl holds me from doing that. We'll know when we'll get there.

Answer 5

TruthBringer

Yes, always keep the mindset of no 'interest = nexting her'. In my case, I flirt online through teasing and being "smooth" (as they call it) and plan dates early. I can give you an example. When I talk to them online, I tell them "Let's chat here a bit. And maybe, I will take you out on a date". Same goes in real life it's much easier to tell if she is interested. If I'm talking to a girl and we are enjoying the convo, I simply throw out the "I know this there is this activity at xxx that I want to try. Let's go together.". If the excuses come, then I drop her. If she is down for it, then I know she is interested.

Answer 6

Unit1

Correct! That's the way to do it.

But alas, phones are still more interesting to the vast majority of them 😳 And they don't want a boyfriend despite "looking". Just wow.

Too bad, that men have lost their value in relationships whilst SIMPS hand out boyfriend services to the girls, who they don't even know what their favorite color is or to girls, who couldn't care less about him.

It's like the reverse of women giving out sex in order to find a boyfriend.

Answer 7

Dinosaursandanime65

No it's part of their lives, like Apex is part of mine.

Answer 8

lilyanony1

Xper 6

If those texts were from her to Brian for starters she made the mistake of chasing him down.
I'm sorry but it just doesn't happen over here. The moment it does you literally get the less honest version of that. which involves him half hearted replying if he does, telling his mates what a loser you are and ghosting you.

There's nothing wrong with sending a good morning text but only when you've been talking a while and maybe the talk the night before ended in an open ended kinda way...

Answer 9

ThongQueenFlirt

Xper 6

I was never like that. Even now, I just come out face to face. Don't have time for games, and neither do they. I can't speak for others, because I don't know or how they do. Guys don't know how to read the signals or go through the trouble of finding out. Do you like getting signals, or just come out and say it?

Unit1

24 d
I like direct women - no games.
ThongQueenFlirt

24 d
<3 I like that! <3
Unit1

24 d
Yay. Win-win :)
It's just that easy! I could ask ladies out like that.
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ThongQueenFlirt

24 d
I do the same with men. And they love it!