Why are women so focused on controlling men?

Question

What is it with women doing things like cooking or cleaning or other stupid crap in order to keep a man. I see it as manipulation, because they're not doing these things to play a part in the relationship. To them it's, I do a you a favor, and you bend over backwards for me.

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17 d

maybe i worded my question wrong. Its more about immature people not knowing what it means to be a relationship. And has less to do with what sex you are, but your own personal development.

Answer 1

VIVANT | 430 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Uhhh you want to clean be my guest😛... My boyfriend struggles with selective amnesia When it comes to how where what when to clean 🧽🤦‍♂️

it’s not fun and I’m def not in control of that 😐

you can’t get annoyed when someone is trying to clean But it’s super annoying when it makes more of a mess.

And really HOW hard is it for a college graduate to remember to open up the trash bag all the way. Close cabinets not leave stuff on the counter Not leave garbage bags on floor not use non porous cleaning material for soft pine wood floors Don’t mix dark and light colors in wash... esp with post it’s up 🤔 🤷‍♂️

MannMitAntworten

17 d
That was a bit funny to read. Especially the part noting the, “post its”. For me, my last girlfriend was the absolute first to put any effort into contributing towards our domestic necessities. To caught me completely off guard in spite of her saying she was this way. I lean, I have met plenty of women who claimed to perform certain domestic chores but never once witnessed it. It was always, “You are better at it...” I would hear. Not exactly encouraging to say the least. So when my ex entered the pitcher and took initiative in doing things... well, I am still processing her having done so. Seriously, NO other women ever has till her and I have dated a LOT.

Frankly I am struck by how much more ‘together’ 20-something women tend to be than women in their 39’s and up seem to be. Perhaps it is their drive to be “independent” or whatever. I do not know. I just know 20-something year ild men seem to villainize an age group who I have not noticed to take initiative since women of the World War II generation. I’m impressed by them.

Seeing women in their 30’s upwards into 60’s and still trying to, “figure it out” to me is boggling. Just what I have seen and experienced.

In the reverse sense, historically speaking, I do feel you pain VIVANT as I have experienced the same with all but one ex... My lone exception.

Answer 2

MannMitAntworten

That was a bit funny to read. Especially the part noting the, “post its”. For me, my last girlfriend was the absolute first to put any effort into contributing towards our domestic necessities. To caught me completely off guard in spite of her saying she was this way. I lean, I have met plenty of women who claimed to perform certain domestic chores but never once witnessed it. It was always, “You are better at it...” I would hear. Not exactly encouraging to say the least. So when my ex entered the pitcher and took initiative in doing things... well, I am still processing her having done so. Seriously, NO other women ever has till her and I have dated a LOT.

Frankly I am struck by how much more ‘together’ 20-something women tend to be than women in their 39’s and up seem to be. Perhaps it is their drive to be “independent” or whatever. I do not know. I just know 20-something year ild men seem to villainize an age group who I have not noticed to take initiative since women of the World War II generation. I’m impressed by them.

Seeing women in their 30’s upwards into 60’s and still trying to, “figure it out” to me is boggling. Just what I have seen and experienced.

In the reverse sense, historically speaking, I do feel you pain VIVANT as I have experienced the same with all but one ex... My lone exception.

Answer 3

Киттйлинк | 148 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

umm.. what the actual F*? 👀 ..
girls that cook and clean do it to control men? did you swallow a brain eating amoeba?

ChefPapiChulo

16 d
Calm down
Киттйлинк

16 d
No.

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TeddyGotT

13 d
Holy shit that was a great response!
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ChefPapiChulo

13 d
@TeddyGotT you simp.
TeddyGotT

13 d
@ChefPapiChulo you incels are a really strange lot

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