I'm worried about someone, I have no control over/can't do anything about, so, why am so worried?

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A girl who usually posts on social, hasn't posted in 4 months. I'm worried about her, i don't have her other contact info, (wouldn't be able to anyway), what should i do?

Answer 1

Searlas

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Calm down and stop worrying, live your life, anything bad or good happened. Back then for example, I was very active on social media and it came to a point I felt that I was wasting too much time on the net instead of focusing on money making, so, I just stopped one day and focused on other things. Life goes on. Life isn't linear, shit happens everyday, we are here today, and tomorrow we are gone. Live on.

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Answer 2

Anonymous

Maybe she decided to take a break from social media. Maybe she created a new account. What can you possibly do? Nothing. Just, relax. Time will tell.

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I guess

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I guess

Answer 4

Anonymous

Why are you worried

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I mean, 4 months
Opinion Owner

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A lot of people don’t use social media or withdrawal from it or cancel their account all together, due to better things. Anymore reasons you have these anxious feelings?
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Not sure
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Opinion Owner

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Okay.
Asker

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I think because she's still a human being, ya know?

Why shouldn't I worry about a human being?
Opinion Owner

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Contact her “hey how are you” a simple message like that might mean the world to her if something is really going on with her
Opinion Owner

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“Everything alright? Was thinking of you”
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Why can’t you contact her any other way?
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she's famous, married, and has kids
Opinion Owner

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So you just spy on her social media.
Asker

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Yeah, most people do
Opinion Owner

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Okay.
Opinion Owner

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Then why can’t you just post as a fan.. “hey I’ve been following you for quite some time now and always looking forward to your posts.. and noticed you haven’t been active for about 4 months.. hope everything is ok”
Opinion Owner

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I don't know when someone’s really famous people message them all the time, and they never respond. Have you at all established any type of relationship, some common thread.. I don't know people are depressed right now because of COVID. She prolly had to homeschool her kids.. mommas are stressed
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Most "famous" people, have managers, that "manage their social media"
Opinion Owner

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I mean some famous, not so famous people have their own personal accounts they control
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Still get a lot of obsessed fans they don’t reply to
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Are you famous?

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Asker

I mean, 4 months

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Opinion Owner

A lot of people don’t use social media or withdrawal from it or cancel their account all together, due to better things. Anymore reasons you have these anxious feelings?

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Asker

Not sure

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Opinion Owner

Okay.

Answer 9

Asker

I think because she's still a human being, ya know?

Why shouldn't I worry about a human being?

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Opinion Owner

Contact her “hey how are you” a simple message like that might mean the world to her if something is really going on with her

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Opinion Owner

“Everything alright? Was thinking of you”

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Opinion Owner

Why can’t you contact her any other way?

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Asker

she's famous, married, and has kids

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Opinion Owner

So you just spy on her social media.

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Asker

Yeah, most people do

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Opinion Owner

Okay.

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Opinion Owner

Then why can’t you just post as a fan.. “hey I’ve been following you for quite some time now and always looking forward to your posts.. and noticed you haven’t been active for about 4 months.. hope everything is ok”

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Opinion Owner

I don't know when someone’s really famous people message them all the time, and they never respond. Have you at all established any type of relationship, some common thread.. I don't know people are depressed right now because of COVID. She prolly had to homeschool her kids.. mommas are stressed