No he doesn’t do this at all. This is a just a friend that doesn’t want to hang out. This is a red flag to me
Does he hang with others? I have work friends but I wouldn't want to hang with any one of them and we have worked together for 8 years. Odds are you just don't have similar interests for long enough to hang out with.
He does hang out with others. I invite him out to get lunch with others but he doesn’t come
I would just straight up ask why maybe he is shy and likes you but its hard to tell.
I have never been given a honest answer. In fact I like him but he doesn’t feel the same
If he knows you like him and you know he does not like you that way I would say he doesn't want to lead you on and if you hang out he may belive he is giving false hope
Yeah but that is ridiculous. We aren’t children so this shouldn’t be the case
Guys are usually just bigger children we aren't good at communication and unless we have to do something we won't and over think things like everything
Sure I understand what you’re saying but he can’t have it both ways by trying to be friends texting me when he feels like and never wants to commit to hanging out.
For me texting and being friends are 2 different things I can text someone daily but I would not consider us friends and just tell him all or nothing its that easy. Step up or step down
I agree with you. I’m not big on texting and the fact he relegate everything to text says a lot about what he thinks of me. I feel it would be unfair to get him an ultimatum.
It may seem bold to give an ultimatum but guys are happy in there bubble and don't like change so he will just keep texting and flaking until you or you make him change that situation
I kinda did that in a sense because I tried to have a conversation and ask him where do you see this going. It turned into an argument and we no longer speak. I said some things and he said some things but I said once thing really regret. I told him I was the only girl there for you. That made seem like he owes me something and he doesn’t but that wasn’t my intention
Ya guys are bad at communication and if i got into an argument with someone I would personally avoid them and stick to being text friends if that.
Is it my fault as well as his for the argument so we can’t blame him. We haven’t talked in 4+ months
I would cut your losses and move on its tough but better in the long run
I guess so
It sucks but better than consuming your thoughts enough to ask people online
You’re right but it’s hard right now
I just keep thinking about it
What are you hoping to happen? You start dating or just have a friend to hang out with?
Having a friend to hang with and if that develops into a relationship then that is a plus.
Ah I see well I would just be honest with him and see what happens pussy footing around won't help anyone
Wouldn’t it be weird to text someone after 5 Months of no contact?
Time heals all wounds and better to know for sure than to always think about it
Sure you’re right
Only one way to find out best of luck but don't get your hopes to high
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Even if he text me and we are friends?
Yes you should
He probably just doesn’t have the time