She got her karma lol?

Question

Two years ago I ill-treated a girl. I liked her and she also did but I created a bunch of misunderstandings and wouldn't speak to her on my own. I really liked her but played hot and cold, made no effort to see her and expected her to chase me. Would act cocky, act like i didn't know her around my friends. I would never acknowledge her around my large group of friends. I would say HI and walk away , expecting her to come after me and talk.

She did approach me on her own whenever I came close to her.

We werent friends and she was beautiful so I didn't know how to approach her. She had asked me out too, if I was willing to hang out but I declined.

Soon she stopped talking to me because i would pretend like she didn't exist in front of my friends. and she stopped chasing me. This made me angry, vicious and aggressive towards her. I reckon she sensed it because she came over asking me to have a conversation with her but I was pretty rude towards her.

I flst out denied everything we had, saying I didn't remember anything, and also blamed her for ignoring me and not speaking to me. I also refused to listen to her and told her point blank that there is nothing else to talk about and listen to.
She said she wanted to discuss something but I didn't listen to her, ignored her and never spoke to her.

Some people told me karma exists. Well, since I left that girl, I gained a lot. I still don't have a good job but I got a girlfriend after 3-4 months of this whole drama , have a great sex life and have been enjoying my days with my now girlfriend, going on holidays, visiting each others families and friends.

While the girl i heard of suffered quite a bit. She got very sick and I heard she was miserable.

Lol so where's the karma? Doesn't this prove karma doesn't exist and she was wrong hence she faced the repercussions? While today I have a sexy girlfriend with whom I'm enjoying my life?

Answer 1

yucychan | 203 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

So what are you trying to prove?
Are you trying to tell me that poor girl whom you dissed deserves all the bad things that happened to her? Are you really that happy hearing that she is unwell and depressed?

You don't have to pretend to be nice but you don't have to be so outwardly cruel to people as well.
I feel sorry for people like you, who are just so far into themselves.
I hope that girl find a nice guy that treat her right and that she won't have to encounter another useless guy like you.

Asker

11 d
Well if she was right why did she suffer? Why did I get a girlfriend, a great sex life and everything is good?
Marilynjuana

11 d
@yucychan The asker sounds very immature and insecure, anonymously asking questions about his "suffering" ex-girlfriend online. It's a pity indeed, if only closed minds came with closed mouths.
Asker

11 d
@Marilynjuana answer at least
Show All Show Less
Asker

11 d
@Marilynjuana hellooo
Asker

11 d
helloooo
yucychan

11 d
@Marilynjuana
Agreed. I don't see what's the point of him bragging about being an asshole. It's as if he is having his happiness based on other people's misery. It's just sad, really.

Answer 2

Asker

Well if she was right why did she suffer? Why did I get a girlfriend, a great sex life and everything is good?

Answer 3

Marilynjuana

@yucychan The asker sounds very immature and insecure, anonymously asking questions about his "suffering" ex-girlfriend online. It's a pity indeed, if only closed minds came with closed mouths.

Answer 4

Asker

@Marilynjuana answer at least

Answer 5

Asker

@Marilynjuana hellooo

Answer 6

Asker

helloooo

Answer 7

yucychan

@Marilynjuana
Agreed. I don't see what's the point of him bragging about being an asshole. It's as if he is having his happiness based on other people's misery. It's just sad, really.

Answer 8

Anonymous

But what exactly is her karma.. I don’t get what she did wrong? Lololol

So. Life seems to be going good for you as of now. But things can change in the blink of an eye. And how do you know if she’s depressed and miserable? If you were truly the reason for her misery. Then expect your karma, sometimes it takes time. She sounds like a beautiful girl who many guys are after. It’s only a matter of time until she forgets about you with a man well deserved of her presence.

Asker

11 d
I know that cos I have a friend who told me she's unwell and miserable because I left.
Opinion Owner

11 d
If that is true, than she must have really liked you.. God bless that girl. She may have been the only one to truly care about you. You know, that is someone’s daughter. Would you like if, it were your own to be in her shoes?

sounds like you’d want her to be depressed and miserable because you left. If you liked her, why’d you treat her so badly? From the looks of it, she didn’t deserve that. Karma is very much real. I’ve experienced bad karma myself... it changed who I was as a person. I make sure to be good to people.

You’re going to feel really stupid to find out she is just fine or that she has a boyfriend who treats her right. You may just be the one to end up miserable.
Asker

11 d
She's not fine nor has a boyfriend
Show All Show Less
Opinion Owner

11 d
So what if she doesn’t have one right now? It’s girls like her who have suffered the most in love and in the end, have the best outcome in her love story. Looks like God saved her from a coward like you. You should be ashamed of yourself and enjoy your good time while it lasts. Seek forgiveness from the man up above or be a man and apologize to her.
Asker

11 d
She still wants me
Opinion Owner

11 d
What makes you think that? Lol.
How old is she? If she is smart and grown, she most likely remembers the mistreatment and doesn’t like you. This will eventually diminish any feelings she had for you.
Asker

11 d
We share a common friend. Inspite of that she still cares and wants me
Opinion Owner

11 d
What did she do that you treated her so badly? If she still wanted you, I don’t think you would be here right now asking us for advice.
Asker

11 d
I'm asking why she suffered
Opinion Owner

11 d
I’m sure she didn’t. 😂 especially if you haven’t done anything for her to love you
Opinion Owner

11 d
Only a young girl would be sad over situation like this as soon as she she’s mature she’ll be over it, if it really got to her.

You’re not a good person.
Opinion Owner

11 d
Sometimes people experience sadness and grief because God wants that person to connect with them. If she is a believer in God or the situation has improved her relationship with God then rest assured, she has blessings that will unfold in her life. When God allows suffering in ones life, he really loves that person and has something so beautiful in store for them. A lot of celebrities suffered really bad in their life before they made it to where they are. People who have a good love life have had bad luck in love in the past. Who knows? She may make it to be famous. I could’ve sworn they made a movie similar to this story.
Asker

11 d
So what? I was akso frustrated and angry that I didn't get her. Now I am happy while she's still crying
Opinion Owner

11 d
If she’s crying now she’ll get over it eventually, trust me.

you could’ve got her, but you were being a dick. I don’t see why you were so mean to her if you both liked each other.

Answer 9

Asker

I know that cos I have a friend who told me she's unwell and miserable because I left.

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

If that is true, than she must have really liked you.. God bless that girl. She may have been the only one to truly care about you. You know, that is someone’s daughter. Would you like if, it were your own to be in her shoes?

sounds like you’d want her to be depressed and miserable because you left. If you liked her, why’d you treat her so badly? From the looks of it, she didn’t deserve that. Karma is very much real. I’ve experienced bad karma myself... it changed who I was as a person. I make sure to be good to people.

You’re going to feel really stupid to find out she is just fine or that she has a boyfriend who treats her right. You may just be the one to end up miserable.

Answer 11

Asker

She's not fine nor has a boyfriend

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

So what if she doesn’t have one right now? It’s girls like her who have suffered the most in love and in the end, have the best outcome in her love story. Looks like God saved her from a coward like you. You should be ashamed of yourself and enjoy your good time while it lasts. Seek forgiveness from the man up above or be a man and apologize to her.

Answer 13

Asker

She still wants me

Answer 14

Opinion Owner

What makes you think that? Lol.
How old is she? If she is smart and grown, she most likely remembers the mistreatment and doesn’t like you. This will eventually diminish any feelings she had for you.

Answer 15

Asker

We share a common friend. Inspite of that she still cares and wants me

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

What did she do that you treated her so badly? If she still wanted you, I don’t think you would be here right now asking us for advice.

Answer 17

Asker

I'm asking why she suffered

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

I’m sure she didn’t. 😂 especially if you haven’t done anything for her to love you

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

Only a young girl would be sad over situation like this as soon as she she’s mature she’ll be over it, if it really got to her.

You’re not a good person.

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

Sometimes people experience sadness and grief because God wants that person to connect with them. If she is a believer in God or the situation has improved her relationship with God then rest assured, she has blessings that will unfold in her life. When God allows suffering in ones life, he really loves that person and has something so beautiful in store for them. A lot of celebrities suffered really bad in their life before they made it to where they are. People who have a good love life have had bad luck in love in the past. Who knows? She may make it to be famous. I could’ve sworn they made a movie similar to this story.

Answer 21

Asker

So what? I was akso frustrated and angry that I didn't get her. Now I am happy while she's still crying

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

If she’s crying now she’ll get over it eventually, trust me.

you could’ve got her, but you were being a dick. I don’t see why you were so mean to her if you both liked each other.

Answer 23

Marilynjuana | 183 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I don't think you should look into karma too much, I'd be real sad if I were so far up my own arse and had nothing to back up my success with. Keep at it and keep your mouth zipped, then all is fine.

Asker

11 d
Well if she was right why did she suffer? Why did I get a girlfriend, a great sex life and everything is good?
Marilynjuana

11 d
You heard stories about her, stop being a nutcase and realise that you know nothing about her life. For all you know, she might be together with a man now. An actual man, not you.
Asker

11 d
No she isn't. She's depressed and miserable.

Answer 24

Asker

Well if she was right why did she suffer? Why did I get a girlfriend, a great sex life and everything is good?

Answer 25

Marilynjuana

You heard stories about her, stop being a nutcase and realise that you know nothing about her life. For all you know, she might be together with a man now. An actual man, not you.

Answer 26

Asker

No she isn't. She's depressed and miserable.

Answer 27

Anonymous

preach on pastor!

She got her karma lol?

AI Bot Choice

Most Helpful Girl

What Girls & Guys Said

Related myTakes