How does a guy, in general, get more female attention?

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We all know that females are very hesitant to pay attention to males, which is not a problem that exists the other way around, at all. Yet males still very much want female attention; how do guys get more female attention, even if it isn't romantic attention (even though that's what we want most)?

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Answer 1

CoolGuyJoe | 70 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

It's all about how approachable you are in a metaphorical sense. Guys talk to each other a certain way, same with girls. Being in touch with your emotions is a big deal when it comes to interacting with women.

Think of it like a lens covering your conversation. I've worked with a bunch of men and women and there is always a certain type of feeling that doesn't show up when talking to each gender.

Like I said above women are more open to interactions where you both have your hearts on display in a sense. If you're the strong insensitive type sure you'll get attention here and there but you won't get to relate to them. That's the kicker. If you share a world then you'll be seen as approachable.

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Answer 2

Browneye57 | 1.4K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Guys need three things to get the ladies...
1. Looks
2. Money
3. Confidence. Irrational confidence.

You can get by with any two, but having all three is key. You can gain #3 by working on 1 and 2, so hit the gym HARD, and make a shit-ton of dough. I guarantee you'll have all the pussy you can stand.

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Answer 3

Yads_Is_Back

Guru

I disagree. We DO pay attention to males. Oh yes, we do. We just don’t pay attention to every one that walks by. We pay attention to, well, the ones worth paying attention to.

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mindNsoul

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Thatsamazing

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Great... And who are the ones worth paying attention to? And what would you say when those males still feel that they aren't receiving any, or much, attention? From their perspective?
Yads_Is_Back

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I highly doubt Channing Tatum, Chris Hemsworth, or even my man would claim they don’t get enough attention from females. They might even say they get too much.
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Yads_Is_Back

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The same goes for any man who does get lots of female attention
Thatsamazing

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Okay... so... be attractive?
Thatsamazing

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And you would simply say to them, "yes you are getting enough" if they say they feel they aren't?
Yads_Is_Back

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Attraction brings attention, so yeah, that’s even implied in the definition of the word lol

And I still can’t imagine them saying that, but if somehow it was true, then no I would think he isn’t getting enough and what the heck is wrong 😂 I mean, you don’t know my man so let’s use Tatum: can you honestly imagine a world where Channing Tatum does not get female attention? Where women don’t watch Magic Mike and drool over him? Lol I can’t imagine it!
Thatsamazing

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... Okay. So the answer to the question I asked is, "be attractive?"
Yads_Is_Back

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In common sense form YES. That’s common sense lol
Thatsamazing

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I see. So if a guy is not attractive, in the top 20% of looks, say, what recourse does he have instead? Anything? And inversely, if a guy therefore is not getting any attention, ever, does that mean logically that he just must not be attractive?
Yads_Is_Back

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Well looks aren’t the ONLY thing that determines attraction. So that pretty much answers all of that
Thatsamazing

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Okay, but... you haven't really given any other answer, hence why I asked that.

Answer 4

mindNsoul

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Answer 5

Thatsamazing

Great... And who are the ones worth paying attention to? And what would you say when those males still feel that they aren't receiving any, or much, attention? From their perspective?

Answer 6

Yads_Is_Back

I highly doubt Channing Tatum, Chris Hemsworth, or even my man would claim they don’t get enough attention from females. They might even say they get too much.

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Yads_Is_Back

The same goes for any man who does get lots of female attention

Answer 8

Thatsamazing

Okay... so... be attractive?

Answer 9

Thatsamazing

And you would simply say to them, "yes you are getting enough" if they say they feel they aren't?

Answer 10

Yads_Is_Back

Attraction brings attention, so yeah, that’s even implied in the definition of the word lol

And I still can’t imagine them saying that, but if somehow it was true, then no I would think he isn’t getting enough and what the heck is wrong 😂 I mean, you don’t know my man so let’s use Tatum: can you honestly imagine a world where Channing Tatum does not get female attention? Where women don’t watch Magic Mike and drool over him? Lol I can’t imagine it!

Answer 11

Thatsamazing

... Okay. So the answer to the question I asked is, "be attractive?"

Answer 12

Yads_Is_Back

In common sense form YES. That’s common sense lol

Answer 13

Thatsamazing

I see. So if a guy is not attractive, in the top 20% of looks, say, what recourse does he have instead? Anything? And inversely, if a guy therefore is not getting any attention, ever, does that mean logically that he just must not be attractive?

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Yads_Is_Back

Well looks aren’t the ONLY thing that determines attraction. So that pretty much answers all of that

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Thatsamazing

Okay, but... you haven't really given any other answer, hence why I asked that.

Answer 16

Miley19new

Xper 5

We like compliments and we appreciate gestures :)
Us girls pay attention to details so being considerate and supportive will do

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Thatsamazing

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So... are you implying that the way to get her to pay attention to him is for him to pay attention first? With compliments and stuff? Or something?
Miley19new

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Yes, usually. Most of us can like a guy very much but will never tell unless he gives us some sort of hope :D
Thatsamazing

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But... why would he do that, if you never give him hope either?
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Miley19new

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because he wants her attention?
Thatsamazing

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Yes... but she wants his too... right? Why should it have to be one-sided in terms of who does it first?

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Thatsamazing

So... are you implying that the way to get her to pay attention to him is for him to pay attention first? With compliments and stuff? Or something?

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Miley19new

Yes, usually. Most of us can like a guy very much but will never tell unless he gives us some sort of hope :D

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Thatsamazing

But... why would he do that, if you never give him hope either?

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Miley19new

because he wants her attention?

Answer 21

Thatsamazing

Yes... but she wants his too... right? Why should it have to be one-sided in terms of who does it first?

Answer 22

scott04sa22 | 834 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Could be his social status like player, asshole, jerk and badboy status. Or his looks or the vibes he's sending out. It could be his vibes he's sending out.

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Wewladdy

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A real man doesn't base his self worth or esteem on what overgrown children think.

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lauragrl

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we pay attention to guys ALL the time trust me

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Thatsamazing

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Nuh uh.

Answer 25

Thatsamazing

Nuh uh.

Answer 26

jamesgoldman | 324 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Buy a Rolex?

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