This woman in particular doesn’t want to spend time with me as a friend or isn’t interested in anything romantic or sexual. I don’t get her reasons for texting me
Hmm. What does she text you about? Maybe if you want to see her in person you could suggest going for coffee or something. If she never wants to see you in person and only ever texts you, you could ask her why she doesn't want to do anything in person.
Honestly she Text me about nothing. It’s pretty much idle conversations. Stuff “hey” “what you’re doing” then it cools down. I tried numerous times to set up lunch or coffee but she won’t come. I even organized group outings and she won’t come. I’m positive she doesn’t want to see me in person because I told her in the past I liked you. Stupid mistake but I did it and I can’t take it back. It’s clear she doesn’t want to see me in any capacity. Texting is all she is willing to do.
Maybe just give it some time. It sounds like she's pretty understanding and doesn't feel uncomfortable enough to cut contact or anything like that. Maybe she's waiting for some time to pass until she thinks you've moved past those feelings, and then she'll be more open to it :) Just ask her things about her day if she texts. Hobbies, etc
It’s been years my brother if nothing has changed yet it will never change. I’m too old to try and prove to someone anything
Ah. If it's been that long and nothing is changing, maybe decide whether you want her name popping up on your phone. Sometimes that can be a painful reminder of something you'd like to forget. Or maybe it's something that helps you feel good in the day. Either way, it seems like she's just content to treat it as a long distance pen pal or friendship. Sorry : /
I rather not deal with it because why would I want to talk to someone that treats me this way
Probably so. She doesn’t ask me for money though. I think In this case money is attention for her when she is bored.
She probably wants you to voluntarily offer to give her money, so she doesn't have to ask for money. Then when you don't offer to give her money she leaves.
I’m positive this isn’t the case because she won’t take anything from me
She probably is in a relationship but I don’t know and she won’t tell me and she isn’t required to. We’ve been talking for 3 years and I honestly don’t know her really.
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I’m seeing this for myself now. I had no idea but they pretend that they care but all they want is attention and nothing else
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