Should women take control of their relationship?

- You're a young guy so I'll forgive you for being a bit of a simp, because you've probably been bombarded with the men=bad women=bad message, but no. What you're saying isn't true, and with that kiss-ass attitude all you're gonna get is walked all over by women who don't respect you. And for a woman, her respect for you is directly linked with her attraction to you. When you pedestalise a woman you shouldn't be surprised when she looks down at you.
Women can be just as immature, just as easily led astray, as men can. They're neither mentally nor morally superior to us. They have flaws just like we do. They don't fart rainbows and shit glitter. Not even the most attractive ones.Is this still revelant?
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- If you want to put yourself down and grovel at the feet of femaledom, that is your right to do so. But you don't speak for men and, in this post, you aren't even acting like a man.
Men and women are different - absolutely - and I am damned glad for the differences! But that does not mean that one gender is better than the other or superior in any general way. With respect to specific functions, like lifting weights, men have an advantage. Women are much better at nurturing children.
But women do not have any superior ability to run a relationship and most men don't want their girlfriend/SO/spouse to be their boss. And most women don't want men to be the boss, either. A relationship should be a partnership, with both partners contributing to the best of their abilities.
Telling women that they should be in charge is just another way of saying that you don't want to shoulder that responsibility yourself. Guess how attractive that is to women!Is this still revelant?
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- How bout y’all just grow the fuck up and stop using incompetence as an excuse to make your spouse balance both of your lives. Strategic incompetence is a manipulation tactic often utilized by men to force their spouses to assume the bulk of household responsibilities and emotional labor. You’re not a good multi-tasker? Practice. You’re not good at complex thinking? Read a fucking book and take some classes to get the gears turning in your head. You have no patience? Learn it. You got the urge to cheat? Either end the relationship or seek counseling.Is this still revelant?
You realize that women are taught how to handle household chores and responsibilities from childhood? Maybe if we taught men the same way they’d be more responsible as well.
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- Women should be in control over their own lives and well being. However, this doesn’t mean they should control men. The reality of that would look more like women are their husbands moms than anything else.Is this still revelant?
That would be wives not mother's. Wives are married women who also take control of the relationship
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413- I'd come from the other side and say nobody should ever not be in control of their relationship.
But you also shouldn't assume that just because someone is more easygoing, that they're not in control.
How we express ourselves is very different, and you shouldn't judge people by casual interactions.
But if you feel you're not doing well in your relationship, I'd recommend taking to your partner about what you can do to change that.ReactLike
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- You sound like a woman yourself. Weak, irresponsible, passive, you are a beta male, a failure. You need to recognize this and work to change.React
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- How about you tell your fellow men to grow up and take things seriously, instead of passing all the responsibilities with women just bcoz u think that we are capable of multi tasking?React
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- What do you Mean by Jedi Like abilities? Not an independent gender can have them. My passive: (I made up the name) Silence of the Wind.React
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- Agreed, women should be in charge of social/personal affairs.React
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- No you teenage dipshit get off the internet or you'll end up crazy like meReact
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- If the couple prefer it that way. But as for me, I won’t continue a relationship where a girl has noticeable control. Either it’s me or we’re generally equal 👫React
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- The man can exute any domanence he wants but when it comes down to it we want to get laid and that's where the power isReact
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- People ought to just stop assigning rolls to relationships.React
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- I don't think women have the capacity to take control of a relationship. Because they never know what they want, and even if they do want something they're always avoiding it.React
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I think no one should take control a relationship. That's when things starts to get toxic. It should be a partnership.
@Primrose21 I agree with you.
However, I was just talking about having a vision for the direction you're taking and setting goals of milestones to meet. That type of thing.
- Anonymous1 yHow many new user profiles have you already gone through today, missy?
Next time, get a pink one like you should have from the beginning.ReactLike
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- Nope. Women might be good at those things you mentioned but men are far better leaders.React
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@Primrose21 well if women are such good leaders why dont they lead? Lol. Its quite simple.
@bamesjond0069 u sure is dumb. It wasn't even a century had pass by when women were allowed to vote, sit a position and etc.
How can a woman lead when dumb guy like you won't allow us in the first place?@Primrose21 you prove my point exactly. Nobody "allows" you to lead. Thats just typical whining by someone whos not capable. Leaders just do it. So why do women complain instead of just do it?
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Wew wew. U sure is dumb for a "guy". U gone blind or what? Ever heard of prime ministers being a woman? CEO as being a woman? Even at church, woman can now be a pastor. Dumb guys like u are the reason why women want to lead.@bamesjon0069 Now girls are slowly kicking men out of positions. Men are now barking afraid that it will touch their stupid egos. 😛😛😛
@Primrose21 yes. As i said a handful of women are capable. That being said simply being put into ceo or government doesn't make one a leader. There are plenty of examples of CEOs that aren't leaders and often they get replaced or the company fails. The title isn't what makes you. Most women who have titles are not good leaders.
A leader who only has people follow for direct benefits isn't very good. Ie ceo has employee work for paycheck. A real leader could get the employee to come in after hours gladly without pay of any kind to accomplish a task.
Its one thing to say vote for me. Ill give you free healthcare. Vs vote for me, ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country. (Comparing two US democrat presidents)@Primrose21 you sound so bitter. Let me guess you another extreme feminist girl who hate all men because you get no love
@justtrue I'm not a feminist but any girl would be mad at this bcoz u are obviously a SEXIST!
@Primrose21 keep praising me more. I might fall for you.
Nah I’m not sexist, but I always tend to debate against those toxic feminist. Lol@JustTheTrue Is "Women can't lead" not sexist to u?
Unless u are dumb and can't comprehend well.It doesn't need feminism to realize that @Bamesjong0069 is a sexist jerk. You are also for defending him.
@Primrose21 women can't lead because instead of just doing it y'all complain about it. you're a perfect example.
@Primrose21 i won't because i am a business owner. I just am a natural leader. Nobody had to give me permission or anything... lmao
@Primrose21 that depends you know. In a relationship girls will bash guys like they did in a post where a guy mentioned that girls should lead in a conversation and every girl attacked him lol. Meaning even you girls want a guy to lead.
Now business wise that really depends, but you see guys leading instead of a girl. Now when it comes to image, girls are being used because their looks will attract customers and are more appealing. That’s why you see that most receptionist tend to be girls.
Also, a girl can’t lead a construction project because they don’t got the psyche that a man do and a man can understand what the other man are feelings and capabilities, so they know how to much work should be done and how long it will take to finish. A girl wouldn’t because she might either give extra work or less work and giving too much work might result in people quitting and less work might upset the bosses as not being really efficient.
I’m not saying that girls aren’t capable, it is that a lot of them get too emotional. Not saying that guys doesn’t because there has been occasions where guys can’t lead either.
That’s not being sexist, but realistic.
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- It's a partnership not a buisnessReact
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A partnership is a formal arrangement by two or more parties to manage and operate a business and share its profits. There are several types of partnership arrangements. In particular, in a partnership business, all partners share liabilities and profits equally, while in others, partners have limited liability.
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@GiantKnight when a person puts a lot or probably more. Unequal profits is a big no no unless u are stupid
In essence it is what is agreed upon between the parties involved what ever those arrangements maybe.. the point of my comment is proper communication and agreement to where every one is content. Fair play.
Once I see that I am the only one exerting effort. Then its time to say goodbye. Relationship can't have written documents where u can sue the other party if they failed to comply.
I dont know if promise21 is agreeing or disagreeing with what I'm trying to say.. but I do agree if a relationship is unhealthy for you then it is time to rethink the situation
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