I do feel kinda used by her... I think she wants to use me to get what she thinks will be a “better” life for herself
That ain't a friend, then. That's just a mooch. Friends help each other get better, they don't use one another as a stepping stool.
Yes! I remember that film well. Hopefully I don't end up like the main character haha
Let's hope not. She doesn't sound like she's being a very good friend to you
It's weird because she is very invested in our friendship. She wanted to be 'best friends' with me very quickly, and keeps saying I'm her "person" etc etc.
I'm wary of people like that only bc of bad experiences.
What kind of experiences? If you don’t mind elaborating?
I had a friend who was pretty toxic but it took me some time to see it. She'd get really pissed at me and be verbally abusive then buy me things to make up for it, cook for me. And she was jealous when I hung out with other friends
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I wish.. she's my roommate for the next year
Ah shit we have a freeloader. You know what you could do is start setting up traps and pranks for fun. Like if she steals your makeup all the time, replace it with something else. I'll let you get creative with it.
She usually steals it after I use it. She'll see me using it and just snatch it off my desk and start using it without asking.. such weird behaviour