Friend seems to want everything I have?

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When I buy new clothes, she asks to borrow them before I can even wear them. She steals my makeup from me. She flirts with almost every guy I want even though I am single and she is taken. She also wants my friends. What is wrong with her?

Answer 1

Smoke-n-Growls | 238 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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Sounds like you need to dump your friend.

You've got a mooch, not a friend.

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Biancam13

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I do feel kinda used by her... I think she wants to use me to get what she thinks will be a “better” life for herself
Smoke-n-Growls

1 y
That ain't a friend, then. That's just a mooch.

Friends help each other get better, they don't use one another as a stepping stool.

Answer 2

Biancam13

I do feel kinda used by her... I think she wants to use me to get what she thinks will be a “better” life for herself

Answer 3

Smoke-n-Growls

That ain't a friend, then. That's just a mooch.

Friends help each other get better, they don't use one another as a stepping stool.

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JaneDoe377

Explorer

Sounds like a single-white-female situation going on.

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JaneDoe377

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https://g.co/kgs/JWLc12
Biancam13

1 y
Yes! I remember that film well. Hopefully I don't end up like the main character haha
JaneDoe377

1 y
Let's hope not. She doesn't sound like she's being a very good friend to you
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Biancam13

1 y
It's weird because she is very invested in our friendship. She wanted to be 'best friends' with me very quickly, and keeps saying I'm her "person" etc etc.
JaneDoe377

1 y
I'm wary of people like that only bc of bad experiences.
Biancam13

1 y
What kind of experiences? If you don’t mind elaborating?
JaneDoe377

1 y
I had a friend who was pretty toxic but it took me some time to see it. She'd get really pissed at me and be verbally abusive then buy me things to make up for it, cook for me. And she was jealous when I hung out with other friends

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JaneDoe377

https://g.co/kgs/JWLc12

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Biancam13

Yes! I remember that film well. Hopefully I don't end up like the main character haha

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JaneDoe377

Let's hope not. She doesn't sound like she's being a very good friend to you

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Biancam13

It's weird because she is very invested in our friendship. She wanted to be 'best friends' with me very quickly, and keeps saying I'm her "person" etc etc.

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JaneDoe377

I'm wary of people like that only bc of bad experiences.

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Biancam13

What kind of experiences? If you don’t mind elaborating?

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JaneDoe377

I had a friend who was pretty toxic but it took me some time to see it. She'd get really pissed at me and be verbally abusive then buy me things to make up for it, cook for me. And she was jealous when I hung out with other friends

Answer 12

ManWithThePlan123 | 62 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I mean you can just kick her out lol

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Biancam13

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I wish.. she's my roommate for the next year
ManWithThePlan123

1 y
Ah shit we have a freeloader. You know what you could do is start setting up traps and pranks for fun. Like if she steals your makeup all the time, replace it with something else. I'll let you get creative with it.
Biancam13

1 y
She usually steals it after I use it. She'll see me using it and just snatch it off my desk and start using it without asking.. such weird behaviour

Answer 13

Biancam13

I wish.. she's my roommate for the next year

Answer 14

ManWithThePlan123

Ah shit we have a freeloader. You know what you could do is start setting up traps and pranks for fun. Like if she steals your makeup all the time, replace it with something else. I'll let you get creative with it.