I guess so, my cousin posted it I’m definitely not on tik tok. And I told her the same thing, maybe you guys feel that way because you live in bad neighbourhoods. Cause the girls that are not afraid of men raping them constantly go outside at 3am no problem
Nope I don’t live in a bad neighborhood I live in a good place and still get harassed and slut Shamed by guys❤️
I’m just saying I been to places where girls didn’t see all men as rapists, I wish I grew up there cause they are a lot happier. And actually chase down men they like
Lmao nobody thinks all men are rapists cause we know y’all aren’t lol ✋ but I’m not gonna be at a bar and not be cautious whose around my drink even if I’m around the nicest men u could ever meet
Oh well that’s life I guess, no point in complaining about things that can’t change
Well I’m still gonna complain for my safety welp🤪
That’s weird picture
😂😂nah it's a nice pic
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Not really, it’s just that women tend not like people that disagree with them
^No one disagreed, we told you our struggles like you asked and then you invalidated them.
Conversation are not about validating you’re strugglings. Especially not from strangers. So I don’t know who lied to you.
I prefer understanding why things are the way they are
So tell me who disagreed with your opinion? Because I don’t see anyone disagreeing here. All I see is women answering your question and you invalidating their experiences.
Care give an example?
Care to tell me who disagreed with you?
I’m confused as to what you’re asking me, I just wanted to know why girls are afraid of men
And people have been giving there answers and you said that women don’t like when you disagree with them, so I’m asking you who disagreed? What’s so confusing about that lol
And you absolutely deserve to have no more access to this question.
I never disagree with anyone, but all I said was that if your saying men are stopping you from wearing shorts you must be afraid of men. But yet girls want guys to approach them. So I was just trying to understand the backwards logic that it take to say you hate that guys rape you with there eyes but at the same time want them to chase you
@SammyWhoran the dude is a troll, he just told me I can’t handle a different opinion because he doesn’t agree that my sexual assault was traumatising for me lmfao
Again women are not entitled to strangers on the internet validating there experiences, there’s plenty of guys on here for that
I never asked you to, you just felt entitled to do it yourself. I shared because you asked, not once did I ask you to validate it. It doesn’t matter to what you think of it anyway because it was traumatic to me whether you agree or disagree, personally I don’t care what your ‘opinion’ on it is.
In the future if you don’t care about someone opinions just say it out load to yourself. It will have the same effect. And save yourself the heartache
In future don’t ask questions because you want to start arguments. Save yourself the heartache.
If you interpret my opinions as starting an argument that something you need to address.
Well since I’m not the only one who interpreted it that way, maybe it’s something you need to address.
No most girls see disagreements as a personal attack. That men avoid arguments. thats where I messed up
So is that a big concern of yours
Yess there are a lot of creeps in the world
Well if we can complain about men looking at women for too long we really ain’t got much to complain about
Probably not, I read a book about it and there was no trans woman
So you’re afraid of men
No just some things they’ve done makes me uncomfortable
Ok so why not just walk around naked? If the goal is to show as less skin as possible
It’s not trying to show less skin...
Ok then what’s the point
What do you mean?
You said men make you uncomfortable, do they make you uncomfortable
Yeah... I just said yes.
Sorry I meant why do they make you uncomfortable
Oh because there’s been a few times where I’ve been wearing a skirt, shorts, tank tops etc they make really inappropriate comments. I got groped in Barcelona by a man as well because I was wearing a tank top with loose pants. I usually just let myself overheat in the summer now 😂
Ideally how would want me to treat you when you when you wear revealing clothes
Like a normal person? It wasn’t revealing clothing either so please stop calling it that, I’m not that type of person.
When I was groped I was wearing a shirt and baggy trousers. When I was 14 I was wearing a skirt that ended just above my knees, with shorts underneath and a jacket on top and I was still cat called. This summer I wore a shirt that covered my chest and upper half of my arms with leggings yet an old man still followed me around the store and to the check out where he kept yelling ‘nice tits’ whilst I was trying to shop with my mom, I was 17. My clothes aren’t the issue and I shouldn’t be treated any less because of them.
Well we’re I live girl don’t get approached by guys, they travel to places like Barcelona just to get harassed by men, my point is you can either live in society where men are allowed to be openly sexual with women, so women feel desired, or you can live in a place where it’s frowned apon and women are lonely and live with a bunch of cats.
I travelled to Barcelona to surprise my disabled mother with a meet and greet with her favourite actor, not to be harassed by men. I’d rather live alone with cats if it meant that men would stop harassing me and sexualising me in front of my fucking family. There’s a difference between being desired and being harassed.
It’s gross that you can’t see the issue here. It’s so fucking horrible to go out in public when you’re being followed around a damn store by an old man. I was pushing my mother in her wheelchair was I was groped. STOP NORMALISING SEXUALLY HARASSING WOMEN. It’s not that fucking hard to be respectful of other people regardless of their gender instead of being a piece of shit that embarrasses a fucking CHILD in front of her family by screaming that she has nice tits.
Sound like you don’t want to hear a different opinion, but want everyone to believe what you believe, what the point of even talking? I never said sexual harassment was ok, all I said was girl that live in those cultures start there family earlier. And girls who live in western societies have to resort to online dating to meet guys.
Of course I want people to believe it’s not okay to sexualise women especially teenage girls. It’s not a matter of different opinion, it’s the fact that I stated that being sexually harassed and sexualised by men in front of my family multiple times and you pretty much said that it’s okay because it means I’m desirable? It’s not okay. Sexualising women constantly is not okay. Sexualising young girls is not okay. Shouting sexual comments at women and girls just trying to live their damn lives is not okay. It’s not a matter of a opinion, it’s literally human decency to not be a scumbag like that. I will talk about it because enough is enough.
I mean how would you like it if you’re with your mother and grandparents getting groceries, you’re 17 years old and a 70 year old woman is following you around the store. You get to the check out and you're helping your grandparents pack their bags and she comes up to you, in front of them, and starts telling you how nice your dick is and how she would love to fuck you. You’re telling me you’d be comfortable and okay with that?
You never once mentioned anything about online dating or starting families either. You said that I had to chose between being desirable or living alone with cats.
I’m starting to realize why men shouldn’t ask questions like this, and I can’t keep asking sexual questions so I guess this website isn’t for me.
Oh and if the 70 year old women is ok with doing that, that mean I live in a culture where women sexual desire men openly. So obviously I would just avoid the old women and just wait for a girl I actually like to harass me, like any sane person would
How was I supposed to avoid him if he followed me around the store and approached when I was packing my grandparents shopping? You wanted to know my struggles with men and I told you.
Yeah and I gave my opinion, you’re the one who told me to change my beliefs about women, think about how arrogant that is. You can’t handle a different opinion with out feeling like you’re being attacked, that’s sad
Because it’s not a different opinion and I didn’t ask for your opinion. I don’t feel like I’m being attacked, I feel like you’re just incredibly ignorant to other people’s discomfort in these situations. What’s sad is that you ask women to share why they feel uncomfortable around men and then try to start arguments. That’s sad.
I’m not responding to this anymore because it’s dumb as hell.
Correction you don’t want opinions that opposite to yours, if you didn’t want opinions you wouldn’t be on this website asking people for there opinions
When did I ask for you opinion? I shared my experience because you asked. I didn’t ask for your opinion on it.
So you want to just answer questions and then not expect people to have an opinion about it? Well that’s one way to avoid being corrected
So in other words you think those experiences I had were perfectly fine? Seeing as you keep saying you disagree.
There was no opinion about if I agreed with there actions, I simply said the difference between European countries and western ones. Men don’t think like women so there was no emotions involved when I stated my opinion, so that why you’re upset
Because you keep saying I can’t handle a different opinion?
You can’t, you told me to not call crop tops revealing clothes (show the arrogance that you have to police someone else speech) and you went on about how traumatic it’s was to be sexually assault and said I was wrong for not agreeing with you. All this because I stated why some girls are afraid of men.
I didn’t say a single thing about crop tops... I said tank tops... completely different things. Well yeah you don’t get to tell me if my sexual assault was traumatic or not lmfao..
Just shows how ignorant you are
Yeah I don’t wear either so don’t say I’m ignorant because I don’t wear women’s clothes. Anyways I think we’re done here, have a good day
Yeah because you’re speaking absolutely nonsense at this point. Goodbye.
What’s stopping you from doing it now? Is embarrassment to much to bare
Not really just more comfortable
So how are men stopping you
So your not afraid of men?
That they have themselves to blame for all the rape, murder, robbery, domestic violence, emotional abuse, one night stands and the list goes on. But life won't be the same without men , its the ying and the yang, balance of the world. It be kinda boring.
Well most of these girls on here are saying they would dress how they want, so do feel that way
Nah i dont think its like that. You can still wear what you want too. If there are no guys who do you have to impress. No need to wear heels or skirts. You can even wear a plastic bag.
That my point, girls who grew fearful of men, think the opposite of what you think, that why they don’t love men
I know what id do , id shave my head, wear a lot of gothic makeup, go outside in a bra and jeans and heels. Just live my best life. Hopefully its summers then 😂
Im not fearful of men i guess.
Fair enough, you sound like your not afraid of men