What is the attractive female equivalent to male physical strength and confidence?

Question

Studies show that men are generally physically stronger and more confident than women are. Studies also show that women are more attracted to physical strength and confidence than men are. What do women usually have more of to measure up?

I'm just curious. I love women!

Answer 1

Anonymous

I'm a girl, so I can't speak for guys. Maybe you should ask "what do guys like/look for in a girl".
But I will do my best, I could be wrong. These can be preferred differently for different guys.
In my experience so far, I guess they like physically attractive girls, most of the time that can include being neatly dressed or groomed, not too much makeup, fresh skin, big/beautiful eyes, nice smile/teeth, lush lips, long hair, not a hairy body, big boobs, big butts, soft hands, favorite eye and skin color, height, and weight.
They also like happy girls, fun girls, girls that genuinely enjoy lots of things specially the ones provided by the guy, no drama girls, girls that don't overspend, girls that can provide financially but not more than the guy, girls that depend on their guy's masculine characteristics like strength and confidence and can make a guy feel more strong and more masculine, girly girls, emotionally strong girls, girls who can handle a good deal of the share of problems, more motherly & caring girls, girls who can run the house, girls who are interested in giving them children if the guy wants kids, girls that have strong or supportive or a socially high family without being meddlesome, girls that are genuinely attracted to them and in love with them, girls that are interested in sex, girls that share their hobbies and passions, and of course girls that can cook!

candy77

2 mo
Hey!
You have said everything and mostly not so important stuff.
Character, being frank and attached is the main thing.
If you actually get that going, be sure you will have a longer relationship or even marriage.
markony

2 mo
Great inclusive description

Answer 2

candy77

Hey!
You have said everything and mostly not so important stuff.
Character, being frank and attached is the main thing.
If you actually get that going, be sure you will have a longer relationship or even marriage.

Answer 3

markony

Great inclusive description

Answer 4

ZiZi_Bell | 101 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

I'm pretty strong for my size. I don't look like it but I can usually beat my guy friends in arm wrestling. At least the ones that don't work out regularly. Lol

I've also been studying martial arts since I was 12, so I'm pretty confident I can kick a whole lot of ass if I wanted to. :p

And I've had a lot of guys tell me the idea that I could beat them up was a turn on. XD

I don't think there's a universal thing that people are attracted to. People like what they like. Lol

Rab1901

2 mo
Great explanation! I agree that there's no universal thing but there definitely is a general thing. Generally women are attracted to confidence and physical strength. I am asking about generally. I think confidence and strength in a woman is great too by the way but statistically the average man does not love it in a woman as much as the average woman does in a man. Do you think there is something that women have that is generally attractive to men on the same level as those traits I asked about?

Answer 5

Rab1901

Great explanation! I agree that there's no universal thing but there definitely is a general thing. Generally women are attracted to confidence and physical strength. I am asking about generally. I think confidence and strength in a woman is great too by the way but statistically the average man does not love it in a woman as much as the average woman does in a man. Do you think there is something that women have that is generally attractive to men on the same level as those traits I asked about?

Answer 6

SomeGuyWithaQuestion

Xper 4

What other people said. Physically the typical traits of good health meaning she is good for childbearing like wide hips, boobs of good enough size (not flat chested), looking fit (not too fat, not too skinny), nice face etc...

Personality traits like confidence, being a good person, being happy/fun, being feminine is also good, woman who act more like men are rarely seen as potential mates, they're more seen as good buddies. It's also the reason why I like eastern European woman more than western European. Physically they're not that different but a lot of western woman have become less traditionally feminine, I personally blame too much progressive thinking and feminism for this but what do I know. Eastern european woman on the other hand are more traditional I feel like which is more attractive. Basically in a relationship, the guy wants to feel like the guy but also wants to feel taken care off sometimes (she needs to be caring).

Answer 7

JackSmy | 256 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Why can't a woman be considered "STRONG" in a physically demanding job?
I think guys are more likely to "BRUTE FORCE" things, where women will think it through, and maybe they don't have that muscle strength, but she figures out another way!! An EASIER WAY!
I can't think of ANYTHING, of significance, that a man can do, that a woman can't do, or figure out!!
Yeah, some guy is going to say "Get her pregnant", and yeah, Genius, they found a way to to that without you too! 2 ways, actually!

Answer 8

CriticalDiscourse

Xper 5

I feel like an ass for being the triggered female here, but who says being strong and confident can't be a female thing? Why do we have to have an "equivalent."

Also, please don't give me the "oh men are the physically stronger sex," because I know that. That's not the issue. The issue is assuming strength and confidence are inherently male-only traits because that not only implies women can't/shouldn't be but that men who aren't aren't "manly."

I 100% acknowledge you didn't say any of that, I just feel I have to point it out. This isn't a personal attack on you.

Now, as for liking that sort of thing, that's all fine and good. But I am going with there is no equivalent because women can be both confident and strong and STILL be attractive.

Rab1901

2 mo
Great explanation! I agree that there's no universal thing but there definitely is a general thing. Generally women are attracted to confidence and physical strength. I am asking about generally. I think confidence and strength in a woman is great too by the way but statistically the average man does not love it in a woman as much as the average woman does in a man. Do you think there is something that women have that is generally attractive to men on the same level as those traits I asked about?
Jamie05rhs

2 mo
@CriticalDiscourse While that's true, and women can certainly be attractive for that, that isn't the reason why they're SEXUALLY attractive.

Answer 9

Rab1901

Great explanation! I agree that there's no universal thing but there definitely is a general thing. Generally women are attracted to confidence and physical strength. I am asking about generally. I think confidence and strength in a woman is great too by the way but statistically the average man does not love it in a woman as much as the average woman does in a man. Do you think there is something that women have that is generally attractive to men on the same level as those traits I asked about?

Answer 10

Jamie05rhs

@CriticalDiscourse While that's true, and women can certainly be attractive for that, that isn't the reason why they're SEXUALLY attractive.

Answer 11

MCheetah | 62 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

- Healthy (regardless of body size; just healthy).
- Positive attitude and supportive (aka "not a b*tch").

Women have it so much easier than men. Only a few men are tall, confident, or successful.

What is the attractive female equivalent to male physical strength and confidence?

Answer 12

Warmapplecrumble | 573 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Being able to get pregnant and breastfeed the child for a pre-longed time.

So therefore I would say big hips, strong thighs, big thighs, big bum, big boobs. 😂

candy77

2 mo
Good One! 😁😁😂.
Without really connecting with your partner everything is waste.
Then people start having affairs and stuff.
Warmapplecrumble

2 mo
@candy77 yeah of course 🙂
candy77

2 mo
Were you able to catch it both the ways?
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Warmapplecrumble

2 mo
@candy77 meaning?
candy77

2 mo
@Warmapplecrumble, 1st meaning : connecting emotionally to each other.
2nd : physically not connecting well to get pregnant..
😂😂😂
Warmapplecrumble

2 mo
@candy77 I don't understand
candy77

2 mo
@Warmapplecrumble, what didn't you understand?
Warmapplecrumble

2 mo
@candy77 lol 😂
candy77

2 mo
@Warmapplecrumble, glad you got it😉
Warmapplecrumble

2 mo
@candy77 I didn't 😂
candy77

2 mo
@Warmapplecrumble, good going.
Don't think much.
Enjoy life.

Answer 13

candy77

Good One! 😁😁😂.
Without really connecting with your partner everything is waste.
Then people start having affairs and stuff.

Answer 14

Warmapplecrumble

@candy77 yeah of course 🙂

Answer 15

candy77

Were you able to catch it both the ways?

Answer 16

Warmapplecrumble

@candy77 meaning?

Answer 17

candy77

@Warmapplecrumble, 1st meaning : connecting emotionally to each other.
2nd : physically not connecting well to get pregnant..
😂😂😂

Answer 18

Warmapplecrumble

@candy77 I don't understand

Answer 19

candy77

@Warmapplecrumble, what didn't you understand?

Answer 20

Warmapplecrumble

@candy77 lol 😂

Answer 21

candy77

@Warmapplecrumble, glad you got it😉

Answer 22

Warmapplecrumble

@candy77 I didn't 😂

Answer 23

candy77

@Warmapplecrumble, good going.
Don't think much.
Enjoy life.

Answer 24

Vesuvius87 | 332 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

I believe confidence is an important trait both genders should have. That one has no gender to it.
As for physical strength, a female equivalent to this might be mental determination and support.

Answer 25

MountAverage | 128 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

I like those traits in women. Confidence in women is very attractive. And while physical strength isn't exactly important to me in women, an actually physically weak woman is kinda unattractive. Gives me this spoiled princess kind of vibe.

Answer 26

Unit1 | 567 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

I love women too!

Since these are superficial characteristics we are talking about, the female equivalent assets are their big boobs and youth. And their natural beauty of course (with make up or not - doesn't matter)

Answer 27

Posterboy56

Xper 5

Looking as close to this

as possible.

Answer 28

cgehr783

Xper 4

I admire women's ability to empathize with emotions. They also have intuition, which I envy because I have to put in a lot of effort to become independent.

Answer 29

thegodGreed

Xper 1

I can't speak for all guys but for me I like girls who are kind and passionate.

Answer 30

Edanurus | 71 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Confidence is universal but as far as strength goes I would say the equivalent would be grace.

Answer 31

Anonymous

Male strength and confidence is a beautiful and independent woman.

MCheetah

2 mo
A lot of men don't want an "independent woman" because nowadays, that's just a euphemism for 'arrogant diva with penis envy.'
VanillaSalt

2 mo
That and men want someone to rely on them... it’s okay to be capable but letting a man do what he can just gives men purpose. Other than living which really don’t involve women.

Answer 32

MCheetah

A lot of men don't want an "independent woman" because nowadays, that's just a euphemism for 'arrogant diva with penis envy.'

Answer 33

VanillaSalt

That and men want someone to rely on them... it’s okay to be capable but letting a man do what he can just gives men purpose. Other than living which really don’t involve women.

Answer 34

VanillaSalt

Xper 6

Kindness, mental strength, supportive

Answer 35

Exotic_Insinuations

Xper 4

Being pretty, feminine and confidential, too.

Exotic_Insinuations

2 mo
I meant confident.

Answer 36

Exotic_Insinuations

I meant confident.

Answer 37

MissRomantic

Xper 5

Probably her hospitality and confidence

Answer 38

pigoat | 356 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Whatever the woman on your picture is

Answer 39

startingfitness

Xper 4

submission and devotion

Jersey2

2 mo
True. These women on here think we value confidence, strength and independence in them... which is why so many can’t find a husband. They a-have been told a raft of lies by older feminists.
startingfitness

2 mo
@Jersey2 yeah if anything , those traits are somewhat unattractive. Confidence im neutral to, but strength and independence are not preferred on a girl.
Jersey2

2 mo
I agree.

Answer 40

Jersey2

True. These women on here think we value confidence, strength and independence in them... which is why so many can’t find a husband. They a-have been told a raft of lies by older feminists.

Answer 41

startingfitness

@Jersey2 yeah if anything , those traits are somewhat unattractive. Confidence im neutral to, but strength and independence are not preferred on a girl.

Answer 42

Jersey2

I agree.

Answer 43

Torari | 70 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Physical elegance and emotional softness I guess.

Answer 44

bamesjond0069 | 287 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Youth. 18 year old, thin, virgin.

Answer 45

samstoned

Xper 2

There both powerful stuff

Answer 46

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ

Xper 7

Nope.

Answer 47

Jamie05rhs | 256 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Boobs.

Answer 48

Anonymous

Camel toe

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