Preferences in dating: women do you fall for someone based on money, looks, or personality?

[Horror_lover]

Personality for me. I honestly fell for my boyfriend 3 months after talking to him. We met on a online gaming page, he didn't post pictures of himself, so I didn't have no clue how he looked. I literally just hope he was a guy and he was telling the truth about his age. It took him 8 months to finally reveal himself to me. He did it by video calling me on Instagram. The way he looked and how he was shape, I didn't even care, I can understand why some girls thought he was ugly because going by everyone that thinks that red head guys are ugly. But I thought he was cute but I didn't really care if he was attractive or not. I fell in love with his personality and how kind he was towards these kids that had down syndrome.

[julianstar]

Personality. I proposed to my boyfriend because of his personality. There are many boys in my class who are damn cute and hot and my boyfriend doesn't come under that category. I got a crush on him initially, because I saw him helping a girl and she was a complete stranger to him. Later when we started talking to each, I got to know him more and was falling for him harder. Later, I asked him out. He isn't well off and every time we go on a date, me split the bill.
So, the gist is, I fell for someone solely because of his personality;neither his looks nor his money, only personality.

[Am_and_Pm]

Wow, guys are being so dishonest. I like girls with big butts and who hhave an amazingly crazy laugh. Also, a bit chubby. Not really into skinny girls. They dont really like to get the job done right and only like getting pickedup by car. Im not rich yet and talk to at least 5 different girls a month (a week if I go out daily but the COVID and HW) and they seem to like guys who are white and sexy and ripped, who will actually treat them nice (for like a month) So, yeah, you ask. 😋

[djmzes]

Simple Girl = looks
Mature women = personality
Gold digger and slut = money

Choose your category.

[EclecticEmapath1111]

I can't fall in love with someone who has an abrasive or cold personality or is insensitive. I don't care how good that person looks or how small or prominent their income is. Emotional intelligence, personality, tenderness and attachment style is important to me in a relationship. If we click then great, if not that's ok too someone who fits their ways will find them and I wish that person the best.

[ririissleepy]

Well the first ting that attracts is looks obv bc you dont know about the other aspects yet. But the only thing that can make me fall for a guy is personality.

Financial stability is not important to me atm as I am still young but in the future I think I want the guy to be as successful as me so there is no weird power thing...

[Anonymous]

Anyone that says looks does’t matter (they go for personality first) is a fucking liar, all humans (both sexes) go for looks first, looks open the door, think about it, how is someone unattractive going to get a chance to show their awesome personally when they get ignored and avoided (with some exceptions), shout out to all the females on here saying it is looks, there’s so many hypocrites out there denying it because they don’t want to admit they’re shallow, well guess what, humans are shallow and we’re attracted to what we’re attracted to.

[Splandish]

Money and personality. Money because why would I be with someone who can’t support themselves or doesn’t try hard enough to? Personality because you need to know what kind of person you’re dealing with. You need to know everything about them. What’s the purpose of dating someone who you don’t know much about? You need to know what makes them tick, what’s their pet peeves , what makes them happy , what are their goals etc etc.

[missblythe]

I would love to agree with those saying personality... the question here isn't what makes you notice someone... but what makes you fall for someone.. yes being good looking makes you more noticeable so if you're not good looking get something that would make you more noticeable... it may be humor... it may be a great personality... it may be money lol that way you get into the door and then show your great personality 😁

[Punkcakes]

Personality is key, but looks are also important. I don't mean that he has to look like Brad Pitt, I just have to personally find him attractive, but I have also noticed that many times my physical attraction toward someone increases if I like their personality. Money is always nice, but it will not really influence me liking or not a guy.

[Anonymous]

When people say personality it’s a lie.
They gonna fall for the homeless , ugly man with the great personality?
Nope, they wouldn’t even make eye contact with him and that goes for a lot of oft her men that don’t meet their standards that they are pretending they don’t have.

[sheikalana]

Mostly looks and personality. Money doesn't impress me I'm independent enough to afford anything I want so this person better be very interesting and have their shit together.

[Changiis07]

Looks and personality. I want to be attracted to them physically but also emotionally. Money comes and goes as long as they are not lazy

[itzmera]

personality. but looks kinda play a part. because I mean if you catch my attention, it'll be from the looks first. yk

[ArrowheadSW]

Mostly personality... Looks are important also, but mostly personality.

[JaneDoe377]

First looks then the personality. But if the personality does nothing for me, the looks are not enough alone.

[chapawapa]

Personality, financial success, intellectuality, and looks

[Simplismilez]

Personality. Initially there has to be some attraction like with anybody but talking and getting to know their sense of humor and the way they treat others and how they come to treat you is what really makes me fall for someone

[Roweena_85]

Mix of both, for me being on the taller side is important as well as being funny and a good sense of humor

[Unit1]

Sometimes i think they (not all women) want it all plus 6 feet height, 6 pack, a SUV, that is not older than 6 years...

isn't that kinda like ordering from the menu? Only the top 20% men have at least some of these criteria.

[MountAverage]

Looks, then personality. (Chronologically speaking, not in terms of priorities.)

[Serenitykayyy]

Looks attract me first then personality keeps me interested. The amount money he makes just tells me if he can support himself.

[Jacked_Jones]

Big Wallet for the avg Woman at least for the typical American woman.

[northerngal]

Looks get the door opened but personality gets the guy invited in...