I don’t want to read too much into this so help me understand?

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So when I was talking with a girl at work her cheeks were really red. Is there anything that can cause this that I’m not thinking of.

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1 mo

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Thanks

Answer 1

btbc92 | 2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

She is either shy or awkward or both. Maybe she's not used to having a conversation with guys on that level. If she is young and overall inexperienced with the world as well as with people, that happens sometimes depending on their personality, culture, upbringing, Etc.

Asker

1 mo
So she seems really outgoing and in your face kind of personality
btbc92

1 mo
That depends on how comfortable a person is. Certain personality types A like that with certain people, but they may not be like that with everybody. There are times where even I can be outgoing, but at the end of the day I'm an introvert. I cannot be like that with everybody especially those I don't really know.
btbc92

1 mo
At the end of the day what is your intent with this? She is your coworker and I'm pretty sure there are other co-workers that you can conversate as well.
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Asker

1 mo
Well it was my first time working with her and I noticed it my brain started going into analytical mode thinking like whoa is she attracted to me because it was just myself her and another girl there.
btbc92

1 mo
Are you sure it's because you are attracted to her and you want to ask her out and you trying to see if she's interested? Because that's exactly what it sounds like. Either way again what is your intentions? That's the question. Just because somebody is talking to you it isn't because they're attracted to you or whatever. Your new there or whatever, people are either going to be interested in talking to you or they're going to want to chat with you. Since you're working with her for the first time, it's to be expected that it can be a little awkward meeting new people. But then again who knows. However it is never wise to be going that route with coworkers.
Asker

1 mo
Well no I’m just going off how’s she acted around me today like she lingered around me today getting some snacks and goes I’m promise I’m not stalking you. She also always tried to talk to me. She offered me a ride home to myself and another girl and when she dropped off the other girl she wanted me to get In the front
btbc92

1 mo
Oh no was she lying her butt off. She is very much interested in you when she's expecting you to ask her out. It's all done on purpose. And yes she is stalking you. And yes she wants you in the front because she wants you all to herself. And yes she's behaving the way she's behaving because she's trying to make herself look attractive to you. Watch was going to happens when you God forbid reject her. She is going to treat you as if you don't exist
btbc92

1 mo
I suggest you cut it Loose immediately instead of stringing her unintentionally along because your intuition is telling you correct.
Asker

1 mo
But this was literally my first day meeting her
btbc92

1 mo
You think she cares? She probably just wants to hop in your pants that's how a lot of women are today. No filter, no Integrity, no morals. When they see a handsome man or whoever they think they end up getting with, they're going to take every opportunity to make sure and can guarantee it happens. In my opinion, I believe that people should expressed interest in manners and ways that is appropriate. But aggressive behavior like that some women don't understand it is inappropriate. The same way with some guys. At the end of the day like I told you before it don't matter what ever excuse you want to try to make. If you yourself are not interested in her and that way you need to just cut the cord immediately. If she has a problem with it, that's just too bad. Because again. At the end of the day you are there to work. You are not there to be seeking a relationship or some hookup. Because people like her will get you into trouble and God forbid make you lose your job.
Asker

30 d
Yeah it was just really weird

Answer 2

Asker

So she seems really outgoing and in your face kind of personality

Answer 3

btbc92

That depends on how comfortable a person is. Certain personality types A like that with certain people, but they may not be like that with everybody. There are times where even I can be outgoing, but at the end of the day I'm an introvert. I cannot be like that with everybody especially those I don't really know.

Answer 4

btbc92

At the end of the day what is your intent with this? She is your coworker and I'm pretty sure there are other co-workers that you can conversate as well.

Answer 5

Asker

Well it was my first time working with her and I noticed it my brain started going into analytical mode thinking like whoa is she attracted to me because it was just myself her and another girl there.

Answer 6

btbc92

Are you sure it's because you are attracted to her and you want to ask her out and you trying to see if she's interested? Because that's exactly what it sounds like. Either way again what is your intentions? That's the question. Just because somebody is talking to you it isn't because they're attracted to you or whatever. Your new there or whatever, people are either going to be interested in talking to you or they're going to want to chat with you. Since you're working with her for the first time, it's to be expected that it can be a little awkward meeting new people. But then again who knows. However it is never wise to be going that route with coworkers.

Answer 7

Asker

Well no I’m just going off how’s she acted around me today like she lingered around me today getting some snacks and goes I’m promise I’m not stalking you. She also always tried to talk to me. She offered me a ride home to myself and another girl and when she dropped off the other girl she wanted me to get In the front

Answer 8

btbc92

Oh no was she lying her butt off. She is very much interested in you when she's expecting you to ask her out. It's all done on purpose. And yes she is stalking you. And yes she wants you in the front because she wants you all to herself. And yes she's behaving the way she's behaving because she's trying to make herself look attractive to you. Watch was going to happens when you God forbid reject her. She is going to treat you as if you don't exist

Answer 9

btbc92

I suggest you cut it Loose immediately instead of stringing her unintentionally along because your intuition is telling you correct.

Answer 10

Asker

But this was literally my first day meeting her

Answer 11

btbc92

You think she cares? She probably just wants to hop in your pants that's how a lot of women are today. No filter, no Integrity, no morals. When they see a handsome man or whoever they think they end up getting with, they're going to take every opportunity to make sure and can guarantee it happens. In my opinion, I believe that people should expressed interest in manners and ways that is appropriate. But aggressive behavior like that some women don't understand it is inappropriate. The same way with some guys. At the end of the day like I told you before it don't matter what ever excuse you want to try to make. If you yourself are not interested in her and that way you need to just cut the cord immediately. If she has a problem with it, that's just too bad. Because again. At the end of the day you are there to work. You are not there to be seeking a relationship or some hookup. Because people like her will get you into trouble and God forbid make you lose your job.

Answer 12

Asker

Yeah it was just really weird

Answer 13

1MattyIce

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Are they always red or were they just read when she was talking to you most of the time that's because someone's embarrassed.

Asker

1 mo
They were really red talking to me

Answer 14

Asker

They were really red talking to me

Answer 15

magiusX26 | 134 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

rosacia

allergies

shiness

just got through with a workout of some kind

embarassed

overly warm

magiusX26

1 mo
almost forgot, some type of makeup giving the appearance of flushed cheeks and could be an illness like a mild cold upto sinething major (roughly anything that can cause a fever)
Asker

1 mo
So what about the fact she was lingering around me and goes I promise I’m not stalking you then later she offered to give a ride home to myself and another girl and after she dropped the other girl off she wanted me to get in the front seat

Answer 16

magiusX26

almost forgot, some type of makeup giving the appearance of flushed cheeks and could be an illness like a mild cold upto sinething major (roughly anything that can cause a fever)

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Asker

So what about the fact she was lingering around me and goes I promise I’m not stalking you then later she offered to give a ride home to myself and another girl and after she dropped the other girl off she wanted me to get in the front seat

Answer 18

Anonymous

Ya it’s cold.

Asker

1 mo
So it was pretty warm in the building and she started acting weird around me. Like she was hovering around me a lot
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Maybe she has a crush on you.
magiusX26

1 mo
damn, i forgot this1 in my list
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Asker

1 mo
So there was much more that she did
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Well, what did she do?
Asker

30 d
So she hovered around me as I was working in an aisle and goes I promise I’m not stalking you when she was looking for snacks, secondly she offered me and another girl a ride home. When she drops off the other girl she really is pushy about me sitting in the front seat the whole ride afterwards she carries the conversation I’m poor in conversation so I really can’t keep it going but she just kept it going asking different things
Opinion Owner

30 d
She sounds friendly and it may not mean much. Some girls are naturally flirtatious. Do you like her?
Asker

30 d
Yeah this is why I don’t really try to talk to women I can’t determine actions
Opinion Owner

30 d
Don’t read into it too much.
Asker

30 d
Well the only reason I started to read into it was how much she was trying trying to talk to me the whole hovering around me then asking me if I wanted a ride home then asking me to get in the front seat. Like she was giving me and another girl a ride home I was content to stay in the back seat but after she dropped off the other girl she was like you can get in the front
Opinion Owner

30 d
Well I think she’s being nice.
Asker

30 d
Really?

Answer 19

Asker

So it was pretty warm in the building and she started acting weird around me. Like she was hovering around me a lot

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

Maybe she has a crush on you.

Answer 21

magiusX26

damn, i forgot this1 in my list

Answer 22

Asker

So there was much more that she did

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

Well, what did she do?

Answer 24

Asker

So she hovered around me as I was working in an aisle and goes I promise I’m not stalking you when she was looking for snacks, secondly she offered me and another girl a ride home. When she drops off the other girl she really is pushy about me sitting in the front seat the whole ride afterwards she carries the conversation I’m poor in conversation so I really can’t keep it going but she just kept it going asking different things

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

She sounds friendly and it may not mean much. Some girls are naturally flirtatious. Do you like her?

Answer 26

Asker

Yeah this is why I don’t really try to talk to women I can’t determine actions

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

Don’t read into it too much.

Answer 28

Asker

Well the only reason I started to read into it was how much she was trying trying to talk to me the whole hovering around me then asking me if I wanted a ride home then asking me to get in the front seat. Like she was giving me and another girl a ride home I was content to stay in the back seat but after she dropped off the other girl she was like you can get in the front

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

Well I think she’s being nice.

Answer 30

Asker

Really?

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