Ladies, can you decode your logic?

Question

When u ask a girl how she thinks you look, they gonna give their opinion.

What I am trying to understand is, how the hell can a guy be sexy, fine, cute to 1 girl, but very ugly to another

I had a girl call me good looking and cute

Then i ask another girl and she says im ugly like wth? I asked if it was her opinion or in general and she said "in general"

How can my face give off a look that will give me 2 different opinions.

Dont say beauty is in the beholder or any cliche response because that doesn't answer anything.

Answer 1

HayleyMarie

Xper 6

Everyone has different tastes. Even if one woman thinks you’re attractive and another doesn’t, that doesn’t mean you aren’t an attractive person. It’s just difference of opinion.

Asker

1 mo
Nah. Ur looks have a objective standpoint. On average ull have to get the same reaction
Asker

1 mo
there's no mix ups
HayleyMarie

1 mo
Not true at all. Looks are subjective. Face the facts even if you don’t want to hear it.
But perhaps you should focus less on how others see you and how you see yourself. If you think you’re a good looking guy then who cares about others opinions?
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Asker

1 mo
Nah looks aren't subjective cuz a better looking person will get more attention by more people then another person who looks worse. If u look worse then both of those people, then ull get barely any attention
HayleyMarie

1 mo
But even the person who is not conventionally as attractive-or even someone who don’t find attractive, can be beautiful to another person. You are mainly focusing on how society sees beauty-which tends to be unrealistic at times. Just because one person gets more attention, that doesn’t mean the less attractive person gets no attention.

Answer 2

Asker

Nah. Ur looks have a objective standpoint. On average ull have to get the same reaction

Answer 3

Asker

there's no mix ups

Answer 4

HayleyMarie

Not true at all. Looks are subjective. Face the facts even if you don’t want to hear it.
But perhaps you should focus less on how others see you and how you see yourself. If you think you’re a good looking guy then who cares about others opinions?

Answer 5

Asker

Nah looks aren't subjective cuz a better looking person will get more attention by more people then another person who looks worse. If u look worse then both of those people, then ull get barely any attention

Answer 6

HayleyMarie

But even the person who is not conventionally as attractive-or even someone who don’t find attractive, can be beautiful to another person. You are mainly focusing on how society sees beauty-which tends to be unrealistic at times. Just because one person gets more attention, that doesn’t mean the less attractive person gets no attention.

Answer 7

thegirlfromthething | 961 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

We have different preferences and don’t always agree on which guys are good-looking or ugly. Beauty is subjective even if you don’t want to hear it.

Asker

1 mo
Yeah but everyone has a look placement they fit into. Its not only just me. I see girls do this to other guys.

Id see a girl say one guy is attractive, then another girl saying the same game is not attractive at all

Us guys do the same but at least we know whos ugly and whos not.

When y'all do that, it makes people confused as fuck
Asker

1 mo
Now im trying to figure out what I am
thegirlfromthething

1 mo
Going by conventional standards, sure, but people don’t always personally agree with those. If you must categorize yourself just figure out how the majority of girls describe you or how closely you fit conventional standards of beauty.
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Asker

1 mo
Ok but why is my face good looking and really ugly at the same time.
Asker

1 mo
Its just not making sense
thegirlfromthething

1 mo
That’s subjective. Some girls find your face ugly and others find it good looking, like how two people can eat the exact same dish and one person thinks it tastes great while the other thinks it tastes disgusting.

Answer 8

Asker

Yeah but everyone has a look placement they fit into. Its not only just me. I see girls do this to other guys.

Id see a girl say one guy is attractive, then another girl saying the same game is not attractive at all

Us guys do the same but at least we know whos ugly and whos not.

When y'all do that, it makes people confused as fuck

Answer 9

Asker

Now im trying to figure out what I am

Answer 10

thegirlfromthething

Going by conventional standards, sure, but people don’t always personally agree with those. If you must categorize yourself just figure out how the majority of girls describe you or how closely you fit conventional standards of beauty.

Answer 11

Asker

Ok but why is my face good looking and really ugly at the same time.

Answer 12

Asker

Its just not making sense

Answer 13

thegirlfromthething

That’s subjective. Some girls find your face ugly and others find it good looking, like how two people can eat the exact same dish and one person thinks it tastes great while the other thinks it tastes disgusting.

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