WTF... Cafe Worker IGNORES me?

[meetkitty123]

I find it interesting that you start your question with
WTFIt doesn't read very polite manners. Some women can read this. If she is an intuitive person or very sensitive person you might be accidentally rubbing her wrong even if you say you're not rude to her. And if you say you like her and she is aware that you have a girlfriend this may also be rubbing her wrong. If she also has a boyfriend and she's aware that you may like her this would also lead her to feel uncomfortable. I believe she is simply trying not to encourage you.

[MrsTurkleton]

She doesn't want to engage with you.
It's likely that she has someone in her life.
If we care deeply about one particular guy & another guy shows romantic/sexual interest , we wrap metophorical barbed wire around ourselves.
We still like to be friendly with guys, but if there is hint of something else, it has to be shut down. Sometimes it can seem brutal. Nobody means it to be, it's just a way of keeping you at a distance.

[hellacray]

If you're leaving why the hell do you care?

I'd be more pissed if I wanted to get a refill or to pay my bill and she ignored me.

This actually has happened to me before twice. I was finished eating and was trying to pay my bill and leave. But I ended up waving my arms like a mad man to get the waiter's attention. I had to pretty much scream at her before she realized we were finished eating.

You would think that the staff would try to get people out as soon s possible to make room for new customers.

[Juxtapose]

A lot of people are pretty much raised by wolves and have no manners.

[Hangry22]

She's naturally rude or maybe you remind of her ex. Maybe you were rude to her sometime before. Maybe you favoured the other worker. Lots of possibilities.

[Avicenna]

Maybe she doesn’t want you to think she might be receptive to interest

[Alyssa11]

I think that you're overthinking things.

[pleasestopthis]

Some people have no manners.

[LEADFOOTboi]

she's just a bech... dont worry about it

[Iron_Man]

Move on it’s a waste of time

[alwaysdreaming16]

rude i guess