She asked "I’ve been wondering why you say you want to make plans with me but don’t ever end up following through with it?" what does it mean?

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she straight up asked me this in text, followed by "While I enjoy staying in touch from time to time, even that is inconsistent." What does this mean? And what should I say?

Answer 1

ririissleepy

Xper 5

Errmmmm... just be honest.

1. You like her but are to shy to actually go on a date.

2. You are an asshole and keep on leading her on to play with her feelings because you crave attention.

3. You dont know why you act like that... and can't make sense of it yourself.

4...

I mean you tell me. Just be hoenst to this gir. If you have no interest in meeting up then dont imply otherwise. Thats just mean.

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Asker

1 y
Well i answered saying: “it’s not intentional... I actually genuinely do want to hang out just different shit keeps coming up etc etc”
ririissleepy

1 y
Was that honest?
Asker

1 y
Doesn’t that make it clear to her that I genuinely want to see her?
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ririissleepy

1 y
Well if she felt till now that you were playing her... i dont know if this eased her comcerns
ririissleepy

1 y
Normally if one really wants to meet one makes time. If i want to meet person i make time and make it work. I can totally understand why she would be second guessing you and feels rejected.

Answer 2

Asker

Well i answered saying: “it’s not intentional... I actually genuinely do want to hang out just different shit keeps coming up etc etc”

Answer 3

ririissleepy

Was that honest?

Answer 4

Asker

Doesn’t that make it clear to her that I genuinely want to see her?

Answer 5

ririissleepy

Well if she felt till now that you were playing her... i dont know if this eased her comcerns

Answer 6

ririissleepy

Normally if one really wants to meet one makes time. If i want to meet person i make time and make it work. I can totally understand why she would be second guessing you and feels rejected.

Answer 7

joeldalton | 159 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Do you fail to follow through on your plans you make with her?

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Asker

1 y
Yeah I do... I even told her “don’t be a stranger”. So the weekend after she tried hitting me up to see me and I promised I’ll make it up to her and I haven’t since.
joeldalton

1 y
So stop being such a cunt. If you want to hang out with her, follow through. If you don’t, stop stringing her along.
Asker

1 y
Well i answered saying: “it’s not intentional... I actually genuinely do want to hang out just different shit keeps coming up etc etc”
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joeldalton

1 y
THat’s a lame excuse. You must not be into her.
Asker

1 y
I just clarified to her that i genuinely actually want to hang out. would that be stringing her along?

Answer 8

Asker

Yeah I do... I even told her “don’t be a stranger”. So the weekend after she tried hitting me up to see me and I promised I’ll make it up to her and I haven’t since.