If A Girl You Find Attractive Smiles At You, Should You Smile Back?

[virtue2332]

I wish I could change places with you. I was a medic in the Air Force. You have to just smile back no matter what. Think about it logically you're intelligent. What do you have to gain by not engaging? If you want to keep people at a distance then don't. Some will think you are arrogant some probably won't care. Ask any Veteran what they liked most about their time in. You are not going to hear the money was spectacular but you will hear they bonds they made with people. I developed some close bonds with people that I never would have hung out with otherwise. I was surrounded by Women being in the medical field. My class had 24 girls and 5 guys. I was shy at first but when I learned to relax not over analyze everything and smile I had some crazy fun exciting times. I love women man they are crazy as fuck sometimes but way worth knowing. Just smile back man. You are going to lock gazes with a few that will surprise you. I mean everyone around you and you will notice the energy that is there. Its undeniable its mutual and powerful. I was in an elevator when it first happened to me and she was walking by but when we locked eyes and she smiled it was beyond attracted. When the door closed everyone on that elevator was like fuck that shit was strong you have to find out who she is and I didn't even say anything to them. You don't want to miss out on that trust me.

[lightbulb27]

its awkwards at times in life until you get comfortable with the reality that... it's mating season now for like 20-40 years.

I could easily say "run", as it's the safe bet:)
But love and desire is a powerful thing and part of the cycle of life. So Enjoy the beatufy of it that anther finds interest, practice and build your confidence, learn about girls and relationships and how they are different, different personalities... learn about, and have fun.

Realize it's a wild and adventerous ride... pick a good partner to ride with based upon values, integrity, character, abilities and work with them to grow and be your mutual best.

good luck!

[SuzuBrooke]

Just shows that you are polite and open to talking. You like this girl don't you at least in a physical way. So why not? Nothing's weird about it it's not like your suddenly talking out of nowhere.

[Tea__]

Smile at them even if their not attracted to you lol

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Yes, you should smile back and enjoy the human connection that you made with a girl that liked you enough to smile at you. It doesn't have to go any further than that and most of the time it won't but you should appreciate it when it happens

[Avicenna]

Definitely smile back, even if you're not attracted

[MCheetah]

Who the hell would say no to this? Even if you're already attached, you'd appreciate the kind gesture at least, and smile back.

[msc545]

Absolutely smile back!

[Ninafrances3]

Just smile back