This that wasn't me by the way. The reason I posted it is, a man's preference for big breasts, according to women is somehow wrong, but a womans preference about how tall a guy is, is somehow not wrong. Neither can be changed without surgery, and yet one is wrong according to women, the other is not. Or Say for weight, God forbid he ask how much she weighs cause he has a preference for women who aren't over weight..
Why is it that the women who ask how tall a guy is, get offended by breast size or weight questions?
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MCheetah | 607 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Because they're shallow narcissistic c*nts who aren't called out on their sh*t enough. I see some girls on here claim it's because "breast size is more personal" but that's just deflecting the question. As someone who is almost always told he is too short for women, I legit JUST had this happen to me this week! I had this girl, thick, huge boobs, beautiful face, etc, talking to me. She said she was sweet and intelligent on her profile, but I know better than to listen to their own self-descriptions anymore. The topic of dealbreakers came up. I said mine are stupid people, mean people, and shallow people. Hers was height and was the first (and only, so far) dealbreaker that came up. She's tall and said she won't any date guys under a certain height. I didn't respond; I didn't know what to say that wouldn't potentially be rude. She eventually asked "Is that a problem?" I reminded to her I'm short. She implied my height was within her criteria though, as if that makes her any less shallow, to me. She can date whoever she wants, but I unmatched with her after that. She's definitely not much of a "nice person" if she looks at so many men as being inferior to her. I'm sure she would've done the same thing with me.
Okay first, women aren't there only ones to ask about height... I've had guys are how tall are you, how much do you weigh, and not even on dating sites, cuz I don't use those... Even on here I've been asked that, why does that matter or do they need to know that if I'm not trying to date anyone 🤷🏼♀️ And maybe that's why you should meet more people IRL than all this online dating/texting with all the double standards and created issues., You see someone, meet someone in person, you see the person instead of asking height, weight, tit size, etc...
Firstly, I don't think there is anything wrong about women who prefer tall men, but I also don't see anything wrong about men who prefer big boobs. We all like different things.
That being said, if I was talking to a guy and asked his height and he responded by asking my bra size (no such thing as 'breast size' really), I wouldn't be OFFENDED but I would find it rude. Like dude I asked your height, not the size of your dick, so either answer me or ask me my height as well, but don't go changing the subject to something a lot more personal.
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No disagreement, But a man who is shorter than average would find asking how tall he is as rude too, cause usually when that happens, it ends in the girl ghosting. I have not personally experienced this, but i have had friends that have experienced that.
This lady once told me she broke up with a man because he was an inch too short. And she only found out after looking at his DL. She said otherwise he was the perfect man and treated her well. His one flaw was that he was 5 foot 11 not 6 feet.
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I mean personally, I do have a preference for taller men, but yeah, if a guy looked shorter than average to me, I don't think I would ask him how tall he is, because it would be kind of obvious that he's not 'tall' and I wouldn't want to ask in case it was an insecurity of his. I would be considerate of that. Actually, come to think of it, I'd probably only ask a guy his height if he looked particularly tall, because I'd be interested to know. I'm speaking hypothetically of course because I have a boyfriend. That definitely sounds a bit crazy, breaking up with someone because they're an inch too short. Very strange.
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Right!! *Looking up at the sky* Just how tall are you!!
Because they are self centered narcasists. The idea that they are not perfect is intolerable to them so when you question them that suggests that they have a value like every one else and they can't handle that, if men started actually holding women to standards a lot of women would fall short so they want to be the only ones who can force a specific standard on men. In short rules for thee not for me.
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For the same reason some guys get offended by height question. Women just tend to feel more entitled and think they can ask all the questions they want even at the cost of being offensive but a guy cannot ask them all the questions they might be insecure about. And maybe rightly so because men are supposed to be more secure in themselves and not care about their flaws and women are supposed to be more vulnerable and fragile in that sense.
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JosyJosy | 1.7K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Cause our silly society sees height as a normal thing while we see breast size more as a sexual thing, but height preference is a sexual preference too if you think about it so yeah fuck this society
@CasaNorba yep society's fault, I think that many people will feel uncomfortable if you out of nowhere start about breast size, but if you talk about height, people won't raise an eyebrow
yeah well just because "society" thinks something is right when it isn't does not mean it has to be right. if I know something is right I'm gonna speak my mind about and not give a fuck if "society" gets mad or not because that would mean I'm a coward who lets ignorance and fascism whip me like a slave
I'm 100% with you about society. I want to live on Mars.
CasaNorba | 431 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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a man with standards is the worst nightmare for all women in the west. they're not used to being rejected, so the minute you ask them a question that they have no choice but to answer and reveal themselves leads them to agony and self defeat
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TheUniqueOne96 | 173 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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It's a gender double standard, plus no one likes to get exposed like that, lol.
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TheFlak38 | 935 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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because women are the epitome of double standards. they want to have things both ways and never settle for less.
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KrakenAttackin | 755 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Because women believe they are superior in every way to men with the right to "discriminate" at will.
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msc545 | 668 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Women are permitted to be offended by anything, and men are not. Simple.
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