To a woman how you say it and what you mean by it matters. To men though. We have context and goals and visions behind what it said. Even if you scream I hate you. We don't look at the way you say as much the "why?" Why did this person say this and what happened? Is there something I can fix that can resolve it. Is how we look at. To a woman I see they look at things from pattern. What happened in the past will happen again in the future. So I don't want to look bad. I have to act this way or say this. Am I wrong?