If a girl has a crush on you & you want to get rid of her, is making yourself unattractive to her by being dorky and clumsy a good strategy?

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Yes then she’ll be less attracted to you and shell naturally distance herself from you

No that will backfire and she could become even more attracted to you

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Answer 1

Hangry22

Guru

It depends on the girl's view of you. If she likes you because you seem like a smart and non clumsy kinda guy, she will be weirded out by your new nature. If she likes you very much, doing this will seem cute to her.

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Asker

1 y
How can being like that be cute? I thought women liked manly men?
Hangry22

1 y
It's not being manly all the time. Will you like a girl only if she does feminine stuff?
To me, after you like a person's character his dorkiness and clumsiness will mix into the character i like. If the girl likes only your "manly" looks, then it's better to act gay than doing this

Answer 2

Asker

How can being like that be cute? I thought women liked manly men?

Answer 3

Hangry22

It's not being manly all the time. Will you like a girl only if she does feminine stuff?
To me, after you like a person's character his dorkiness and clumsiness will mix into the character i like. If the girl likes only your "manly" looks, then it's better to act gay than doing this

Answer 4

AperolSpritz

Xper 6

You could just simply tell her that you're not interested & could she please leave you alone

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Asker

1 y
That’s evil. At least this way she’ll leave out of her own accord.
AperolSpritz

1 y
If she likes you, she likes you.
I'm not suggesying you say in a vicious way. Just tell her she's a nice girl but you aren't interested in her that way.
Women would far rather have a guy be completely honest.

Otherwise the only other way is to really act like a dick. Not to her, just in general.

Answer 5

Asker

That’s evil. At least this way she’ll leave out of her own accord.

Answer 6

AperolSpritz

If she likes you, she likes you.
I'm not suggesying you say in a vicious way. Just tell her she's a nice girl but you aren't interested in her that way.
Women would far rather have a guy be completely honest.

Otherwise the only other way is to really act like a dick. Not to her, just in general.

Answer 7

SCDivinitySoul

Xper 4

If you truly want her to stop crushing on you, just be a weird mfer around her, just look at most guys on the internet, they get blocked instantly for being weirdos

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nikooo0ooo

1 y
Do u wna mate with me

Answer 8

nikooo0ooo

Do u wna mate with me

Answer 9

Anonymous

No that will backfire and she could become even more attracted to you

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Asker

1 y
How? I thought they weren’t attracted to guys like that?
Opinion Owner

1 y
They'll do it just to confound us. They are very tricky creatures
_ohhey_

1 y
LMAO XD
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Opinion Owner

1 y
@_ohhey_ Very Tricky Creature ^^^

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Asker

How? I thought they weren’t attracted to guys like that?

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

They'll do it just to confound us. They are very tricky creatures

Answer 12

_ohhey_

LMAO XD

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Opinion Owner

@_ohhey_ Very Tricky Creature ^^^

Answer 14

SandandWaves | 337 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

no, that will make her like ya more. just tell her you not into her like that, but, in a nice way,.. your own words

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Answer 15

Anonymous

Clumsy, dorky guys are adorable

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Opinion Owner

1 y
Yeah, reading other comments, I see you are under the impression all girls like "manly men". That is a matter of opinion. I like guys who are not "manly". I think its cute when guys are dorks, and I feel like they'll treat me better than some bad-boy, though guy jerk.
Opinion Owner

1 y
*tough-guy
Asker

1 y
Even if you disagree with them on many things?
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Opinion Owner

1 y
I'm not saying being a dork means we're compatible. I'm saying that I think it's a nice trait.
Asker

1 y
That’s a surprise.

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

Yeah, reading other comments, I see you are under the impression all girls like "manly men". That is a matter of opinion. I like guys who are not "manly". I think its cute when guys are dorks, and I feel like they'll treat me better than some bad-boy, though guy jerk.

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

*tough-guy

Answer 18

Asker

Even if you disagree with them on many things?

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

I'm not saying being a dork means we're compatible. I'm saying that I think it's a nice trait.

Answer 20

Asker

That’s a surprise.

If a girl has a crush on you & you want to get rid of her, is making yourself unattractive to her by being dorky and clumsy a good strategy?

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