I have a question concerning an ex friend?

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This girl i used to see and be friends with stabbed me in back and treated me bad. I found out that she asked my friend how I was. My friend told her I was great wonderful. The girl replied oh really and thdn tried to stir up the pot and create drama. Petty. Im ignoring it but why would she ask my friend about me. If the girl and I dont talk and i don't want to ever see her in my life again. Why would she want to know how im doing... why would she care. She should just be happy with herself and not try and focus on her and not
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Answer 1

Anonymous

Only focus on your life and your happiness. Once you release a friend out of your life please remember they are no longer part of your journey. If you aren't okay with her asking about you then accept as if it was a distant person from 20 years ago recalling about you. Never let someone upset you, or cause you to create anything negative in your emotions. I am an introvert and still couldn't keep friends. I let friends go like water pouring out of the bottle into the drain. I have had friends who stabbed me in the back, and they never returned in my life. It's hard opening up as it is. So only take her friendship as a lesson and just take asking about you as a great way of saying " I messed over a great friend"

Babwyq12

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Thank you girl i appreciate that honestly. I'm introvert as well but ji care very deeply so it can such when you care and people just mess you up in the end...
Opinion Owner

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You’re welcome! Me too! Are you an empath as well?
Babwyq12

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Girl Yasss so you can imagine the hurt knowing when you care for two people and they just bscj stsb you. One plays victim and the other takes their side even though they knew how bad the other hurt you ll. But its funny how karma works or just how a person can get in their feelings when they see you doingvbettervwithout them but revenge
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Opinion Owner

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Oh yes gurl trust me I understand lol
Babwyq12

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For real ! Omg. Yeah I'm focusing on me now it just made me laugh knowing that the girl wanted to know how I was? Like mind yourself and your new boo that you back stsbbed me with don't worry about me ima be great
Opinion Owner

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Lol I wish I could respond to that part lol but her new boo faking his love and hiding a whole damn marriage with other kids. Girl live your life and be happy for you
Babwyq12

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by the way I'm 26 not 39 lol
Babwyq12

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its a girl too thry both are. Lol
Opinion Owner

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I’m 27 and really?
Babwyq12

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Id that what happened with you?
Opinion Owner

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Yes the girl
Babwyq12

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Yeah just when I created the account I didn't much care about the age haha
Babwyq12

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Thats not cool im sorry :/ some people be trifling Hard asf
Opinion Owner

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Yep I don't know what kind of copy catting she tried to do but the entire thing is fake and he’s married. The entire family knows and still won’t say nothing but it’s all good
Babwyq12

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Wait do he tried to date you or something and hid it from you while he had a whole woman and kids and the family knows but isn't saying anything? Srry insta messages hard to understand
Opinion Owner

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Nawl the girl I befriended and tried to pass my life off as hers got a dude that she don’t know is already married. Where did you get all that from you just said?
Opinion Owner

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You know something I don’t? You said this and left
Opinion Owner

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Then you very much understood what I said
Babwyq12

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Lol guess soo
Opinion Owner

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Excuse me?
Opinion Owner

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You know me or something?
Babwyq12

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Oh i just thought I read it write lol guess not
Opinion Owner

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Or my husband
Opinion Owner

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... k
Babwyq12

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I read it and thought I understood what you meant. Like i said hard to understand through text.
Opinion Owner

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Nawl you good. I just got word that some drama about to unfold

Answer 2

Babwyq12

Thank you girl i appreciate that honestly. I'm introvert as well but ji care very deeply so it can such when you care and people just mess you up in the end...

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

You’re welcome! Me too! Are you an empath as well?

Answer 4

Babwyq12

Girl Yasss so you can imagine the hurt knowing when you care for two people and they just bscj stsb you. One plays victim and the other takes their side even though they knew how bad the other hurt you ll. But its funny how karma works or just how a person can get in their feelings when they see you doingvbettervwithout them but revenge

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Oh yes gurl trust me I understand lol

Answer 6

Babwyq12

For real ! Omg. Yeah I'm focusing on me now it just made me laugh knowing that the girl wanted to know how I was? Like mind yourself and your new boo that you back stsbbed me with don't worry about me ima be great

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

Lol I wish I could respond to that part lol but her new boo faking his love and hiding a whole damn marriage with other kids. Girl live your life and be happy for you

Answer 8

Babwyq12

by the way I'm 26 not 39 lol

Answer 9

Babwyq12

its a girl too thry both are. Lol

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

I’m 27 and really?

Answer 11

Babwyq12

Id that what happened with you?

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

Yes the girl

Answer 13

Babwyq12

Yeah just when I created the account I didn't much care about the age haha

Answer 14

Babwyq12

Thats not cool im sorry :/ some people be trifling Hard asf

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

Yep I don't know what kind of copy catting she tried to do but the entire thing is fake and he’s married. The entire family knows and still won’t say nothing but it’s all good

Answer 16

Babwyq12

Wait do he tried to date you or something and hid it from you while he had a whole woman and kids and the family knows but isn't saying anything? Srry insta messages hard to understand

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

Nawl the girl I befriended and tried to pass my life off as hers got a dude that she don’t know is already married. Where did you get all that from you just said?

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

You know something I don’t? You said this and left

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

Then you very much understood what I said

Answer 20

Babwyq12

Lol guess soo

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

Excuse me?

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

You know me or something?

Answer 23

Babwyq12

Oh i just thought I read it write lol guess not

Answer 24

Opinion Owner

Or my husband

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

... k

Answer 26

Babwyq12

I read it and thought I understood what you meant. Like i said hard to understand through text.

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

Nawl you good. I just got word that some drama about to unfold

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