Girls, Does she like me or does she want to date for other reasons?

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She used to like my photos all the time even before I asked her out. I’m not sure if it means anything, but me and a girl used to talk lots a year ago. But she moved away to study. She will be moving back home soon. She used to like my photos all the time like every one. But then stopped, after 6 month of not talking. We spoke again and I asked her out. And she jumped at the chance to come out with me. I said I still liked her she said when she will be home. So I said would be nice to see her she said “fabulous it’s a deal x”.. so I said to let me know when she’s home. She said “hehe okay will do x”. But she has a boyfriend, but I think she not to sure on him because when she return home from study’s they will live to far. But why did she used to like every photo I post. And she eager to date me. But doesn't like my photos I post. Or does it not matter

Answer 1

B_nash

Xper 7

just wait for her to return home. I am pretty sure she will get in touch with you. If there is a large amount of distance between you then I understand that as well. Have faith

Asker

24 d
Yeah , why did she stop liking my photos. But then when I started talking again she jumped at the chance to date me and was more flirty. But still doesn’t like my photos all the time like she used to?
B_nash

24 d
do you both still communicate? I remember my friend couldn't like her guy photos because the guy blocked her then forgot that he did. Do you take likes as a sign of hope?
Asker

24 d
Well a lot of dates I have been on the girls never like my photos but when she said 7 months ago that she was not looking for anything I tried to persuade her but she said she want ready to pursue things with a guy as she wasn’t in a good place. So in the end o just gave up and moved on and stopped talking. But also my social media was not upto date, so it was harder for her to tell what I am like or look like. But then I started updated it lots after we stopped talking She would like every one of my photos I post. Then 5 months later I started talking to her again, she was flirting a lot more , and I asked if she had a boyfriend , she said yes with a 🤦🏻‍♀️ Emoji , kinda come accross like she wished she didn’t or thought I’d moved on and didn’t like her anymore. But I said I still like her and was hoping to see her and she kinda jumped at the chance to date me and said “ fabulous it’s a deal and that she be home soonish” so I said let me know when you return home she said “hehe will do x”

But she doesn’t like my photos I post and I’m not sure why. Is it important? I am not sure.

I am not sure why after 6-7 months of me not talking she all of a sudden starts flirting more and jumps at the chance to date me even though she has a boyfriend. But we had been talking from a year ago. I guess the only reason why didn’t date was because she studied away from home I study in her hometown. She doesn’t have a lot of money so doesn’t come home. It’s far. Also the guy she with now is at her uni. And she will be moving home soon when she finishes study’s , they will live to far apart
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B_nash

24 d
to be honest with you do you know if she actually have a boyfriend or not? I would wait until she returns home so you can both meet and talk. there are times people are not in the right place in life or in the right head space to communicate with others.
Asker

24 d
Yeah months ago I didn’t know , but she said she wasn’t in the right place. But she was seeing him then. I think during the time we stopped talking she got with him Officially
. But is moved on by then. But then we started talking again and I said I liked her still. She said she has a boyfriend. But I don’t think she’s set on him because she kept flirting more than ever. Then she kinda just jumped at the idea of me and her dating and was eager. Kinda came off like she was relived I asked her. But yeah she said she will be coming. Home soonish at that she is going to let me know when she comes home so we can meet. Why did she jump at the chance to date me when she is now in offices relationship and she flirts even more now
B_nash

24 d
I tell people I had a boyfriend but I actually didn’t lol it was an imaginary boyfriend name Brian so people can stop asking me if I had one or not lol I’m very private! How long have you known her?
Asker

24 d
Sorry ment to say months ago when was started talking she was seeing him but not official. It was only some time after me and her stopped talking that she got with him officially. But because she said all that time ago she wasn’t looking for anything right then I moved on and stopped talking. That was for 7-8 months. Then we started talking again , that was when she was being flirty and Reyna act cute, and wanted to come out on a date. She admitted she had a boyfriend during this conversation but didn’t seem to bother her
B_nash

24 d
I know you mention you had to update your profile so do she remember you from work dressed another way? I ask because some of us look different at work than our normal Iives. Just wait until she comes home so you both can talk. I’m not sure about the other guy though. Since it’s far they probably will be done I guess.
Asker

24 d
No I don’t know her from work , we began taking on Instagram a year ago. But my Instagram was not very up to date. When we first started talking she agree to a date. I study in her home town she study’s away from home. It become impossible for her to
Come home therefore we couldn’t date. I had a feeling she was seeing a guy from her university, but in the end she said she wasn’t looking for a relationship right then but it wasn’t me. Then I kinda tried to persuade her, but in the end it got annoying so I moved on and stopped talking. I decided to start updated my Instagram more after , and she kept liking all my posts. It was also weird why she kept me as a friend and did not delete. So I spoke to her after 7 months , and that’s when her tone changed, she was flirting with me and kept trying to act cute. Then I mentioned that I want to see her and she jumped at the idea of dating me and seemed really eager despite having a boyfriend. But she said she has had enough of university and wants to move home. I’m confused why now after all this time she make more effort to flirt and try to show interest and date me but before she didn’t

Answer 2

Asker

Yeah , why did she stop liking my photos. But then when I started talking again she jumped at the chance to date me and was more flirty. But still doesn’t like my photos all the time like she used to?

Answer 3

B_nash

do you both still communicate? I remember my friend couldn't like her guy photos because the guy blocked her then forgot that he did. Do you take likes as a sign of hope?

Answer 4

Asker

Well a lot of dates I have been on the girls never like my photos but when she said 7 months ago that she was not looking for anything I tried to persuade her but she said she want ready to pursue things with a guy as she wasn’t in a good place. So in the end o just gave up and moved on and stopped talking. But also my social media was not upto date, so it was harder for her to tell what I am like or look like. But then I started updated it lots after we stopped talking She would like every one of my photos I post. Then 5 months later I started talking to her again, she was flirting a lot more , and I asked if she had a boyfriend , she said yes with a 🤦🏻‍♀️ Emoji , kinda come accross like she wished she didn’t or thought I’d moved on and didn’t like her anymore. But I said I still like her and was hoping to see her and she kinda jumped at the chance to date me and said “ fabulous it’s a deal and that she be home soonish” so I said let me know when you return home she said “hehe will do x”

But she doesn’t like my photos I post and I’m not sure why. Is it important? I am not sure.

I am not sure why after 6-7 months of me not talking she all of a sudden starts flirting more and jumps at the chance to date me even though she has a boyfriend. But we had been talking from a year ago. I guess the only reason why didn’t date was because she studied away from home I study in her hometown. She doesn’t have a lot of money so doesn’t come home. It’s far. Also the guy she with now is at her uni. And she will be moving home soon when she finishes study’s , they will live to far apart

Answer 5

B_nash

to be honest with you do you know if she actually have a boyfriend or not? I would wait until she returns home so you can both meet and talk. there are times people are not in the right place in life or in the right head space to communicate with others.

Answer 6

Asker

Yeah months ago I didn’t know , but she said she wasn’t in the right place. But she was seeing him then. I think during the time we stopped talking she got with him Officially
. But is moved on by then. But then we started talking again and I said I liked her still. She said she has a boyfriend. But I don’t think she’s set on him because she kept flirting more than ever. Then she kinda just jumped at the idea of me and her dating and was eager. Kinda came off like she was relived I asked her. But yeah she said she will be coming. Home soonish at that she is going to let me know when she comes home so we can meet. Why did she jump at the chance to date me when she is now in offices relationship and she flirts even more now

Answer 7

B_nash

I tell people I had a boyfriend but I actually didn’t lol it was an imaginary boyfriend name Brian so people can stop asking me if I had one or not lol I’m very private! How long have you known her?

Answer 8

Asker

Sorry ment to say months ago when was started talking she was seeing him but not official. It was only some time after me and her stopped talking that she got with him officially. But because she said all that time ago she wasn’t looking for anything right then I moved on and stopped talking. That was for 7-8 months. Then we started talking again , that was when she was being flirty and Reyna act cute, and wanted to come out on a date. She admitted she had a boyfriend during this conversation but didn’t seem to bother her

Answer 9

B_nash

I know you mention you had to update your profile so do she remember you from work dressed another way? I ask because some of us look different at work than our normal Iives. Just wait until she comes home so you both can talk. I’m not sure about the other guy though. Since it’s far they probably will be done I guess.

Answer 10

Asker

No I don’t know her from work , we began taking on Instagram a year ago. But my Instagram was not very up to date. When we first started talking she agree to a date. I study in her home town she study’s away from home. It become impossible for her to
Come home therefore we couldn’t date. I had a feeling she was seeing a guy from her university, but in the end she said she wasn’t looking for a relationship right then but it wasn’t me. Then I kinda tried to persuade her, but in the end it got annoying so I moved on and stopped talking. I decided to start updated my Instagram more after , and she kept liking all my posts. It was also weird why she kept me as a friend and did not delete. So I spoke to her after 7 months , and that’s when her tone changed, she was flirting with me and kept trying to act cute. Then I mentioned that I want to see her and she jumped at the idea of dating me and seemed really eager despite having a boyfriend. But she said she has had enough of university and wants to move home. I’m confused why now after all this time she make more effort to flirt and try to show interest and date me but before she didn’t

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