Why do most girls accept & justify asshole behavior if a guy is attractive but not from an ugly guy?

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Everyone in my family knows I'm very self centered, selfish,& I'm pretty good at lying & playing whatever role I need to get my way

Most girls who have seen through my "mask" have o my labeled me as crazy" or "weird"

What i find interesting is how all the buff & good looking guys with my sane personality traits are justified & often seen as manly

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Bandit74 | 1.2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I think that's the halo effect. We are naturally biased towards attractive faces and tend to attribute more positive characteristics to them. It's not necessarily that they are choosing to overlook those negative traits in attractive men, it's that they are less likely to even notice them or perceive them as negative in the first place. Unfortunately when it comes to attracting women the worst thing you can be is ugly and also emotionally weak. For most men who struggle with women they would benefit more from increasing their appearance by 3 points than they would by increasing their personality or character by 5.

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Answer 2

taterbot6

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Not only are women more likely to ignore it with a man they deam more attractive but we also tend to think if we date someone that we could fix or convert them.

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So is an unattractive guy with a terrible personality just easy gossip behind his back with fear against him?

I notice most girls becoming much MORE distant after they see my personality
taterbot6

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At that point we tend to gossip because we see nothing that the guy can bring to the table.
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So in my case it's better to have a HUSH HUSH/LOWKEY if I have to live around treachery?

& would I be considered an enemy?
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taterbot6

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not considered an enemy but definitely will probably avoid you. um lowkey would help
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Just curious

If you're unattractive but have a backbone are most females more reluctant to "respect" you?
taterbot6

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Whether you have a backbone or not has nothing to do with respect
Asker

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But realistically speaking if an unattractive guy is more timid & socially awkward

He's most likely to be ganged up on by your gender as opposed to a more asertive & aggressive type

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Asker

So is an unattractive guy with a terrible personality just easy gossip behind his back with fear against him?

I notice most girls becoming much MORE distant after they see my personality

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taterbot6

At that point we tend to gossip because we see nothing that the guy can bring to the table.

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Asker

So in my case it's better to have a HUSH HUSH/LOWKEY if I have to live around treachery?

& would I be considered an enemy?

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taterbot6

not considered an enemy but definitely will probably avoid you. um lowkey would help

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Asker

Just curious

If you're unattractive but have a backbone are most females more reluctant to "respect" you?

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taterbot6

Whether you have a backbone or not has nothing to do with respect

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Asker

But realistically speaking if an unattractive guy is more timid & socially awkward

He's most likely to be ganged up on by your gender as opposed to a more asertive & aggressive type

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Dinklex3 | 328 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I mean.. if your ugly and have a shit personality, what else is there 🤔

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I'm not into relationships of any sort & that includes family

But what astonishes me is how many of my female enemies who were aware that I didn't care about any type of relationships went out of there way to provoke the crap out of me for petty things

I' will never understand why a typical female would want an ugly guy to acknowledge them

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I'm not into relationships of any sort & that includes family

But what astonishes me is how many of my female enemies who were aware that I didn't care about any type of relationships went out of there way to provoke the crap out of me for petty things

I' will never understand why a typical female would want an ugly guy to acknowledge them

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Anonymous

Handsome Privilege or Toxic Masculinity. I can't keep track anymore. Girls R crazy, how about that?

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Why do most girls accept & justify asshole behavior if a guy is attractive but not from an ugly guy?

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