She keeps contacting me. What on earth does it mean?

Question

Long story short:

I told her I liked her, she rejected me in an adult way (more or less).

She asks to be friends. I usually don’t do that since that kind of friendships are hard to maintain, especially when one has feelikgs for the other.

But from that point on, I never text her first anymore. Like never. But she continues to text me. And nothing changed. She keeps telling me daily struggles with her boyfriend and the big softy that I am can’t convince myself to end the friendship. She doesn’t deserve that kind of treatment from me and I still want to be there for her, even though she rejected me.

I have no chance with this girl, yet I can’t seem to understand why she insists on maintaining this friendship when she clearly knows I like her.

Someone explain this for me please...

Answer 1

Aarvagol

Xper 4

She wants you in her life, but probably not as a boyfriend. You should tell her that you still have feelings for her and can't play the role of her friend. Be honest for the sake of both of you. If she still hesitating, wish her the best and move on

Aarvagol

20 d
If she keeps contacting you, she may simply need someone to listen to her. It would be a nice gesture if you could do that before picking a good moment to tell her about what you feel and where your relation is going
MrImp

20 d
Makes sense I suppose... the thing is that I don’t know how to tell her what i feel about the whole friendship thing without hurting her at this point

Answer 2

Aarvagol

If she keeps contacting you, she may simply need someone to listen to her. It would be a nice gesture if you could do that before picking a good moment to tell her about what you feel and where your relation is going

Answer 3

MrImp

Makes sense I suppose... the thing is that I don’t know how to tell her what i feel about the whole friendship thing without hurting her at this point

Answer 4

Hangry22 | 254 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

She needs a friend to vent about her boyfriend. She's a selfish bitch taking advantage of your feelings, Don't be a pushover

MrImp

20 d
Okay.. is it normal that she’s still nice to me and offers to help me, asks me how I’m doing, etc etc
Hangry22

20 d
That's probably her being a friend. She has completely friendzoned you
MrImp

20 d
oh, I already realized that some time ago. It’s weird how she behaves; maybe I just don’t have enough experience yet with girls like this
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Hangry22

20 d
She doesn't want to lose you over some feelings you have. She wants someone like you in her life to bitch about her boyfriend without any romantic feelings. So as to not let you feel bad, she tries to act like a friend
MrImp

20 d
Well, let's hope she's not keeping this up forever

Answer 5

MrImp

Okay.. is it normal that she’s still nice to me and offers to help me, asks me how I’m doing, etc etc

Answer 6

Hangry22

That's probably her being a friend. She has completely friendzoned you

Answer 7

MrImp

oh, I already realized that some time ago. It’s weird how she behaves; maybe I just don’t have enough experience yet with girls like this

Answer 8

Hangry22

She doesn't want to lose you over some feelings you have. She wants someone like you in her life to bitch about her boyfriend without any romantic feelings. So as to not let you feel bad, she tries to act like a friend

Answer 9

MrImp

Well, let's hope she's not keeping this up forever

She keeps contacting me. What on earth does it mean?

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