Can it be a turn off if a women is over feminine or girly?

[Jjpayne]

I'd say yes and no. It is fun to be with a girly girl sometimes. It can feel special when you are with her. But let's be honest, we don't live life in a bubble. We are not in a castle anymore where we have to preserve our outfits to be presentable royalty. In modern times, it's all about allowing girls to do what they want. And I say allow to be annoying. Because there was a time when girls were told not to do things because it was unlady like.

Now, girls enjoy having with with the boys because it simply is fun for both genders to experience a rainbow of all types of activites.

To add another layer of irritation, it is possible to sit out in the car while other girls play paintball, volleyball, and roller coasters/water rides.

I think there is a time to be girly and a time to have fun. There is prom then there is the high school Soccer game.
My idea, it's there is a time and a place to be girly then there is a time and a place to have fun. I think you can have both but that's just my opinion

[virtue2332]

I don't know maybee I've had a run of bad luck but it seems like the the ones that I dealt with that where like that were hiding who they really were with who there family or peers wanted them to be. I know that's not always the case but I just say people should be them genuine flaws and all. I don't think I'm way off but when someone is overboard in one area they usually are like you described put together high maintenance. I prefer a girl to have surprises like put together but is actually a cage fighter where no body would even suspect. Innocent looking proper when appropriate but a complete freak behind closed doors. You know a like if they only new kind of girl. Im not saying a faker but someone who is open but has a deeper understanding of her surroundings and can be all things. What I'm asking for a lot that seems hella demanding. Scratch all that just be genuine genuinely care about me and the things that matter to me.

[jennifer_bloom]

As a woman I usually find honest AND feminine woman to be attractive but I know some guys might view a very very very skinny or insecure girl as weak. Like I posted photos of skinny Hilton’s and chubby kardashians and only around half thought the skinny Hilton’s looked better even though those girls had gone to modelling schools and etiquette training all their lives and everything they wore and lived in was colour matched. Men crave honesty and authenticity and naturalness and that is why you often have horrible woman who have guys loyal to them - cause the guy is so desperate for honesty he decides to put up with a jerk.

[Aparnam]

Isn't it fine for people to just be the way they are?
Who is to say what's feminine and what's extreme.
If somebody enjoys dressing up in frilly dresses or having a nurturing nature and empathetic. It's fine. And if not, that's fine too.
It's who they are. And one doesn't need to appeal to anyone.

Kinda feel that arrogance and ego are the traits which turn off the most. 😂

[slatyb]

Takes a long time to get ready? That’s not feminine, that’s high maintenance. Hates to get dirty — basically means no outdoor activities. She’ll probably end up overweight or frail from inactivity. She doesn’t sound like much fun, more of a PITA. She doesn’t sound very sexy, because sex is messy. No thanks, I want someone who wants to live, not avoid life.

[OneManOnly01]

As long as it comes naturally. If she naturally behaves very feminine without forcing it and trying too hard to be feminine then that’s not a problem.

But she needs to be quite confident at the same time.

The girl you are describing, is she confident?

[Girther10]

I think that you are describing yourself and you want to know if others like the way you are. I think that you are describing yourself and you want to know if others like the way you are A better question would be do you think you are overly feminine or that you are too girly?

[godfatherfan]

hmmmmm... my initial reaction was no but after your description then it changed to yes. Feminine is very hot. But, I also want a woman that is ok to get in the mud and have fun sometimes. I mean I don't really like getting dirty either, but sometimes it is a lot of fun.

[TruthBringer]

Too much of something good often leads to something bad. What truly matters is that she isn't toxic. If a woman gets grossed out and acts all sissy ("Eeeewwwww") over a little bit of dirt, that's a turn off, yes. Same goes for being high maintenance. There should be balance.

[GunnzzNRoses]

Yup. I prefer pretty un feminine traits anyway (tall (5'11+) stature, wide shoulders to match wide hips, tomboyish personality), so yes, incredibly hyper feminine women are a major turn off for something long term. As far as short term, well, anything goes if you get me drunk enough.

[StephenCF]

I love a girl to be feminine in almost every way you described 💃🏻 But some can correlate femininity with sensitivity... and in that case, I don’t like a girl to be so sensitive as to be fearful of certain actions, certain sights or offended by certain jokes. I guess I like her appearance and routine to be feminine, but not too feminine mentally (girls are amazing when they’re also thick-skinned and gothic) 😈☠️

[Reaperbot666]

would imagine it is possible for a female to be overly (100%) feminine or girly to some degree. however doesn't seem to happen that often in modern age. since less females tend to embrace their femininity to that extent these days. majority of modern females tend to be around roughly 40%-60% femininity.

[humanearth]

For me yes, i like farm girls. Ones that will get dirty, butcher animals, walk in the barn bare foot and not worry about stepping in poo.

One that will split firewood, drive a tractor or a team of horses. You know a good farm wife

[Ripper_E]

Not all of that would be a turn off, but most of it would. I value my time. Her taking a long time to get ready when she knows we are supposed to leave is a turn off. Always needing to dress up is a turn off because then I feel like she can't just relax. Sometimes we gotta get dirty, whether we like or not, so moaning or whining about it is also a turn off.

[hellacray]

I'm not into women that are high maintenance aka needs to buy the most expensive stuff all the time.

If she wants to be a good house wife, dress up, and all those other things you mentioned I think that's fine.

I'd rather go with a girl that's overly feminine than overly masculine.

[Massageman]

Reminds me of Ecclesiastes. A time for everything.

There is a time to be feminine, and a time to put on the grungy jeans and help weed the gardening. If a gal isn't ready to some of the less glamorous- yet necessary- tasks in life, YES, that would be turn-off.

[magiusX26]

carried to such an extreme, yes it quickly would turn from a novelty turn on to a turn off. especially the getting dirty part. many activities require getting dirty (litterally and metaphorically). yhen there is often a degree of being judgmental once such an extremeness occurs.

[bamesjond0069]

No thats very attractive... except for the getting ready for a long time and high maintenance. It is a female trait but its not particularly feminine. Its like wearing a g string bikini at the beach. Yes its something some women do but its not exactly feminine. Being conservatively dressed is just as feminine. And so is not being an asshole and holding everyone up so you can stare at yourself in the mirror.

[OlderAndWiser]

The high maintenance part can be a deal breaker and taking an unusually long time with primping can be damned aggravating, but a nurturing, loving woman is very satisfying for me.

[nerdybutlazy]

I think a lot of guys would say yes, but personally, I don't think a lot of women like this would enjoy modern society as much. Not say it's a bad thing to be a woman like this but personally if I was a guy women like this would creep me out

[ak3096]

There was a girl in my group who behaved quite similarly and my friend used to pamper her. He even tied her shoelaces sometimes😂. They weren't in a relationship or anything but I felt like she used to behave like this to get her things done. Guys like my friend acts like a savior in front of such girls and don't let the girl do anything independently.

P. S. its a turnoff for me, it like I am taking care of bone china crockery.
Its not a turnoff for guys who act like a savior.

[superQ]

I think femininity should be a celebrated thing. I don't think it's ideal if EVERY girl were like this, but I don't see girls like that a bad thing. I think the same thing for men and masculinity.

[Gravit1]

If she's completely repulsed to outside activities yes. If if she didn't want to fish herself or gut it, as long as she was cool with coming along or going on a walk through the woods every now and again, then it wouldn't be a problem.

[Knighted2170]

I would say it depends on what the guy is looking for.
Some like it some don't.
Just be who you are and know what you are looking for beyond looks.

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy and I'm not built at all. Rather scrawny too. Never bothered to work out sit a desk everyday for the last 20 years. I guess I'm too lazy. Most days I have good intentions but i keep sitting and one day turned into a week a month and here i am 20 years in. Eat unhealthy and watch movies and play video games all day too in free time that is of course after the kids go to bed. Still feel ok. Same weight as in high school still feel 17

[FreyaRed]

You can exaggerate with everything and it starts to look forced and artificial.
Main part of having sense for aesthetic and style is to know how much is enough

[rienna888]

yes sometimes it can be overdone and come off as creepy but it doesn't matter because we only live once, just the world we live in people are really judgmental. Like if a guy is too manly, it's sometimes unattractive. I know I sound hypocritical lol

[broken_heart_at_48]

That's too much I mean I don't want to have to wait hours for her to go somewhere or she has to fix her hair and makeup to go to bed. Plus I'm rough around the edges so we wouldn't mesh well

[Sweetheart666]

It can to men who like men. But really I feel it’s best to have a nice mix of traits. For example, I can cook like an old lady housewife. However, I can also jump a hill on a four wheeler.

[dreamstar72]

To me she is, but if she wants to be that’s her choice, but not my style in a women.

[Alpha09]

Yes. Girls with substance and variety are far more attractive in my opinion.

[jgokgotit]

Overly feminine is annoying. I need a woman with some grit to her.

[Jerre]

It doesn’t bother me because I know she won’t be dressed for very long.

[AmandaYVR]

I think only if there is work to be done, and she doesn't want to mess up her [fill in the blank.]

[MrCommodore]

No, I always found that appealing. I prefer than over masculine or muscular women.

[SunnySri]

No I don't think so mam, femininity has its own charm and I like it very much.

[blondfrog]

I mean maybe in terms of personality. However I don't think I can be turned off from a woman being too feminine. Unless that consists of too much make up then yes.

[cth96190]

I like girly girls. I have always been attracted to feminine females.

[supercutebutt]

Yes. Most gentlemen these days are attracted to penis.

[SCDivinitySoul]

Yep. If that's her true personality, no thank you. If that's her just acting out everyonce in awhile that's fine.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Can it be a turn off if a guy is overly masculine or macho.

Both are possible.

[Danny_dan92]

Ummm why would it be? I wouldn’t want to date a butch bitch..

[Makeushiver]

Yeah, if her voice goes up an octave when she sees friends, puppies or babies.

[cute_short_nerd]

Eww. Just... eww. No thanks. I prefer skater girls.

[pigoat]

Any woman can be attractive

Everyone is different

[jace13]

Some form of balance is needed, to much of anything will cause issues. We aren't all one thing and it's healthy to express the differences.

[loveslongnails]

Absolutely. There's a limit to how much girly-girl I can take. The above photo is way past my limit.

[Footballplayz]

No not really. It can be annoying at times though especially if getting messy is a bonding thing for you

[Malik00]

This is why Girly Tomboys are the best. Ones that can dress girly and nice, but also know how to get their hands dirty when they need to.

[Guanfei]

If you talk about "barbie" girls, it can be annoying yes, but I'd prefer that over any vulgar or not feminine girl.

[ManHater]

Complete turn off if a girl looks like a barbie doll.

[Incelmax666]

I don't know its not like I can choose what kind of girl I want anyways

[knight2468]

No it is not a turn off instead it’s a turn on most girls now are acting manly so when u find a girly girl it like a lake in middle of a desert.

[IStoleYourHoe]

huge turn-off. i hate prissy girls
girly is fine but not in excessive amounts

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

Only when we're talking about DDLG, that shit is weird.

[Dave31989]

if i have to put more in to my car, than i do her.. then it's too much

[john23232323]

The woman you described would be annoying to me and also very boring.

[Anonymous]

In these times where feminazism rules, I'd really appreciate a girl being so femenine.

[Cryptic-Game]

No. It is only a turn off if she wears nail polish.

[SjE78]

no not at all, if we click what should it matter?

[invalid1]

No as long as she is not faking or pretending.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Too much of anything is bad so yeah.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

Yes, I'm not into little girls

[Iron_Man]

If they can’t play sports yes