Girls, if a guy you had recently met said "I think you're cute, would you be down to grab a coffee sometime"?

Question

I would be more likely to say yes than if he had only said "Would you be down to grab a coffee sometime"

I would be less likely to say yes than if he had only said "Would you be down to grab a coffee sometime"

It wouldn't make a difference

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Answer 1

SueShe | 601 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

If a guy that I recently met tells me that, all my alarm bells go off and I build up a wall around me.

There is only one single reason why a total stranger would say something like that and that it is because he is attempting to hit on the girl or pick her up. That is a no go and a total red flag.

I would certainly not agree to further meet this guy as I am fully aware what his ultimate intentions are. If guys cannot be factual and keep a normal conversation without it having to deviate onto personal issues, then they are out. We all know what this clumsy attempt is all about.

I would politely decline and go my way in the hope never to cross the path of that guy anymore.

geonator

15 d
When you say you are "fully aware of what his intentions are" are you saying that you would conclude he wants to hook up with you because he said what he said?
SueShe

15 d
yes because this is one of the clumsiest way to start flirting with a girl.
geonator

15 d
I didn't say he was a total stranger, I said you had recently met him
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SueShe

15 d
I am aware of the way you phrased it but unless I know a person for a lengthy period of time, he is still a stranger to me. Furthermore, to me it is irrelevant whether that person is a stranger or an acquaintance, friend or colleague. The fact alone that he says something like that is enough to take my distance from that person.

Answer 2

geonator

When you say you are "fully aware of what his intentions are" are you saying that you would conclude he wants to hook up with you because he said what he said?

Answer 3

SueShe

yes because this is one of the clumsiest way to start flirting with a girl.

Answer 4

geonator

I didn't say he was a total stranger, I said you had recently met him

Answer 5

SueShe

I am aware of the way you phrased it but unless I know a person for a lengthy period of time, he is still a stranger to me. Furthermore, to me it is irrelevant whether that person is a stranger or an acquaintance, friend or colleague. The fact alone that he says something like that is enough to take my distance from that person.

Answer 6

Anonymous

B because I don’t want my time waisted and the cute part would at least reveal what the guy would also be up to or have in mind. It would also leave me less confused or likely to possibly overthink.

Answer 7

FictionalCharacter | 134 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Yeah sure I’m up for that. Then I’ll give him my #number, and we’ll build a communication. Getting to know each other first.

Answer 8

dandiecandie | 156 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

No I'm cute isn't good enough!

geonator

14 d
What would be "good enough"?
dandiecandie

14 d
Hahahha I love how you put air quotes around that! Well for me personally, I would like to have a spark with the guy before I go on a date. That would mean I have to have developed an interest in him through previous encounters. To me talk is cheap! I like to see a man take charge be persistent show immense interest. Not willy nilly i think you're cute!! I know I'm cute but the question is what are you gonna do about it!
geonator

13 d
So you want the guy to put effort into conversing with you before he asks you out?
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dandiecandie

13 d
Conversing is one of the things But not only that! There has to be a spark as well.

Answer 9

geonator

What would be "good enough"?

Answer 10

dandiecandie

Hahahha I love how you put air quotes around that! Well for me personally, I would like to have a spark with the guy before I go on a date. That would mean I have to have developed an interest in him through previous encounters. To me talk is cheap! I like to see a man take charge be persistent show immense interest. Not willy nilly i think you're cute!! I know I'm cute but the question is what are you gonna do about it!