Ladies; do you wish you were as popular in real life as you are online?

[VIVANT]

On this site there Seems to be around thirty people who are regularly friendly with me on posts and about 10 I somewhat regularly talk to. 5 I regularly talk to.

That was My approximate situation living in the city. It was mostly nice could be overwhelming at times when I wanted to be invisible but it wasn’t the same as if I was really active on other sites I guess? I don't know if you mean the same amount of friends as I have “ followers” Or am folllwing-most of whom I never met- sounds like a recipe for unlimited free flow of unsubstantiated negative gossip. No thanks 🙏💗

[acooke-13]

I used to want to be, but I don't think I could be bothered. At one point I had a large group of friends and it was tiring keeping up with them, texting a lot, going to events. I like my small circle :)

[Iron_Man]

They don’t really make much of an effort nowadays everything’s all online for them

[Red_Arrow]

Instead of a nude online, show up at my door naked. You will be popular! 😂

[Anonymous]

Oh God no.

It might be a little different for me because I have a vr headset and I use vrchat for the most part, but I have had way too many people interested in me and drama because of that.

I did however find my boyfriend there so I guess its not all bad.

[Cynicaldreamer]

What if you're not popular in real life or online- then what? 🤷🏼‍♀️


I'm good either way: either people like me or they don't; I've learned not to care what others think about you, otherwise it really impacts your self esteem.

[Nxtawm]

No, i like my life the way it is. What i would prefer is myself acting more irl like I do online (more extroverted and social), convos just flow easier online

[jennifer_bloom]

I could be popular if I wanted to be because I’m very confident and kind and always have something nice to say but I would rather have a small number of close friendships that are deep than be universally known.

[KimKardashiansFeet]

Im not popular irl or online but it would be cool to have a similar amount of friends and to be as accepted.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

It's really no different for me, I talk to, engage with people in real life the same as I do on here...
Maybe not as much lately but that's more from being more a recluse in the house lately

[KatherineJ]

I am 38 years old, the last thing on my mind is a popularity contest.

[chapawapa]

No I don't like to be around many people. Or be friends with them... I am like a magnet for people who treat me like I am a therapist... No thanks. I have 1 to 2 good friends

[Apple1996]

I don't really see myself as being popular online or in real life. It's all completely okay with me tho dont really care to be popular.

[douride2]

I have been here for a long time but I'm not any more popular here then I am in real life.

[nikiarya]

I feel like it would be easier to make friends. Online, it's super easy to find people who you fit in well with, but it's a lot harder in person to make those same connections (especially with corona haha)

[camilahenry]

Neverrrrrr! I always want a simple life and I never think to become popular and this is the reason I never upload photos on my social accounts lol.

[OlderAndWiser]

The internet "lets" is be ourselves. If that makes us more popular, maybe that is the lesson to be learned.

[Anonymous]

I'm not that popular on social media sadly. I am trying hard to be.

[Anonymous]

I am more popular in real life than I am online haha. I rarely use my social media anymore.

[Agem123]

It's the opposite for me.

I'm more popular in real life than online.

[Yads_Is_Back]

I’m more popular irl than I am online

[gandolph3]

I wish real life was as open and free as the internet

[Anonymous]

I don't know, my popularity online is fleeting; but my popularity in person is non existent.

[1truekhaleesi]

No because I don't like people