So is there any particular reason these girls do it
I’m sure there’s something special about the guy
Well I don’t see anything special about myself I have very low self
Well I don’t know you so it’s impossible to help. Sorry :/
Do girls find low self esteem attractive
Not really. I doubt that’s why they stick around you. Maybe you have nice hair or a good build or you’re good at communicating or something, I don't know
Yeah what’s weird is this is girls that are my type too like I have always wanted to date a blonde but never really thought I had a chance and the girl who is sitting close to me and who I always catch staring is a really attractive blonde
Oooohh nice :) You have a perfect moment to get her interested then! Show her something you’re good at (indirectly, as in don’t brag about it or make it obvious). Like if you’re good at talking then smooth talk her. If you’re good at drawing then draw something great in class, especially if it’s her. Just examples. Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to impress her. Just do it.And don’t ask her directly if she has an attraction to you. Pull her into it ;) be casual
Yeah I suck at flirting
Well you won’t succeed until you try ;) if she sits next to you you have a perfect shot
It’s not totally next to me it’s socially distanced but it’s the seat 6 ft from me
So this happens in my university classes they even choose to sit the seat near me even though seats are socially distanced
yes i would probably check him out if he was sitting next to me in a class
So I’m not that good looking
is she likes you it doesn't matter we usually end up with average looking guys who we like
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So then why do they stare I’m clearly either average or below
I mean to them, you're good looking.
But both of them were really attractive blondes
I don’t think I’m that good looking
Okay. But how does that coincide with how others view you?
Because I have never dated and social value is predicated on previous relationships
Nonsense. Social value is meaningless and fluctuates on every encounter.
But I also have very poor social skills which is why I don’t talk much
So when you combine low self esteem poor social skills and average to below average looks like I don’t understand how at all I am appealing I always thought my role was to facilitate a girl finding another guy not myself
Leave that part to her. Just do your best to be the guy you want to be. Youd be surprised how many women like gingers.
Is there anything wrong with playing the role of facilitator
Facilitator of what?