We've been talking for a month and have only met once when she told me to drive to her apartment. Apparently she's going through legal battles with an ex so she spent all weekend with her parents, cancelling our plans. We both have off tomorrow for the holiday and I asked if she wanted to go out tonight and she said she's going to a friend's house. I feel like giving up and deleting her. I'm putting all the effort into it. Will I look like a jerk if I just delete her? Or do I politely tell her I'm moving on?