Yup! Because then you plant this seed of self-doubt. We ask ourselves if we did something off-putting in front of her and what it was. Or maybe she found something wrong with us that we never thought was a negative. We start over-analyzing all our own faults and agonizing over them. But we assure ourselves that we'll just move on. We meet our next crush, but that list of personal negatives comes back to haunt us. It feels harder to talk to her and the woman after her. Every social miss-step feels like falling off a cliff. Our social mistakes replays in our memory every night before sleep. End result is rock bottom confidence, insomnia, and depression. I highly recommend that you torture every man you meet with this small little slight. It'll weed out the weak from the strong so that only the fittest may contribute to the human gene pool. The next generation of humans will have absolute self-confidence with zero fucks given about women's opinions. Science declares this new branch of humanity as homo-trumpis. They just refer to themselves as the master race. And I'm obviously hyperbolizing my response as joke, lol. Honestly, we just get over it.
God yes. It's not even hurt or anger, it's just exhaustion. I have been at the point of being done with people who act like that for a long time, and I have no interest in dealing with it moving forward. There's also a little bit of an element of fear there for me, because I've had women pull stuff like that and straight up cost me thousands of dollars because they randomly changed their mind and neglected to tell me.
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