Why do girls feel so offended when men complain about how hard it is to date?

[jabariw18]

Generally speaking, I get rejected a lot. As in, like 99% of everyone I ask out. Excuses are usually friendzone, "I'm not looking for anything right now" or they are taken. Others are ones are usually things like age, race, height, job, among other even more trivial things. It's easy to assume that I'm the problem but as far as I know and based on feedback from everyone I asked, there is absolutely nothing wrong with me. I'm just "not their type" or one of the various reasons above. On top of this, girls get so upset and offended when I tell them how hard it is to fine a date. Like some will literally get angry but most will get annoyed and/or stop responding. In more extreme cases they'll start insulting me and making me out to be a a terrible person for feeling that way. Why does it bother you girls so much?

Updates:

[Kaazsz]

Based on some of the comments I read on this site, it seems to me that a good chunk of the girls on here legitimately believe that if you are good high quality man you will have zero trouble dating.


When you insinuate that there is nothing wrong with you, you’re implying that their belief is wrong, and that some good men who would be great boyfriends, husbands and fathers, are still struggling with women.


And they don’t want to believe that. They think if you are a guy who struggles to get a date, that means there must be plenty wrong with you. That you must actually be an asshole or have some kind of mental illness or who knows what else.


That’s how I see it from reading replies from girls on here and elsewhere on the internet.


Meanwhile women bitch and moan and complain and cry about how horrible the men they date are, and how they have to make such a conscious effort to avoid the bad men and go for good dudes. I think it says more about them than you. Women are deluded. They don’t know what they are doing.


It’s not enough to just be you and just be a good guy. You have to do the equivalent of what women do. Women put on makeup and wear push-up bras and jeans than shape their ass nicer than it is.


You as a man have to do the same but for masculine things. It doesn’t matter who you are as a man. It matters how well you present yourself in a masculine way do as to maximize your attractiveness. I’m sure you’re a great guy and would be a good boyfriend and all that. But those things don’t matter. Women are looking for masculinity. Men are looking for tits ass and beauty. Both sexes need to maximize both to maximize their chances I guess.


Well that’s how I see it. Thumbs down incoming probably lol.