Girls, When you cancel on a date at the last minute, is it because you never intended to go, or because you changed your mind?

[Jojobear]

Honestly when I was not married , the reason I couldn’t go would be because I had something come up this was with my husband. Now other guys that I didn’t want to go out with yes sometimes I would just make a excuse because I didn’t want to go out with that person and I don’t know how to tell them In a nice way.

[cherryblossomXD]

Neither. Something important came up. If I scheduled a date and I didn't want to go anymore. I would feel guilty, so I would still go to be nice.

[paranoidrealist]

If I cancel at the last minute on a date, there was an actual emergency. If I already agreed to it, I'll see it through, or else what was the point of even saying yes?