Why when I hug her she hug me tightly and put her head on my chest and her ear directly over my heart?

Question

Why does she hug me tightly and lut her head on my chest?

Updates:

15 d

She's a close friend of mines

Answer 1

tired__speck

Xper 1

Probably because she is fond of you and she feels a sense of security as to not shy away from displaying affection towards you which could mean she trusts you. And this action allows a particular sense of peace, serenity and relaxation as well.

Asker

15 d
She started to act sad for me to hug her. The last time she did it is when i learned she was lying. She told me something was wrong and she wasn't ok. So i kissed her on the forehead (for the first time) and she giggled. I asked few mins later was she ok. She told me nothing was wrong. She should just either ask for a hug or initiate it instead of just lying or getting really close to me and rubbing up against me
tired__speck

15 d
Sometimes it's hard to verbalize what we want and easier to express our wishes in a more physical manner. So that doesn't mean she was lying per se.
tired__speck

15 d
And if you really do dislike what she did/does, then maybe you should be upfront about it and state it clearly to her in a way so she doesn't misunderstand. If you are both good friends then I'm sure you will be able to settle the issue without causing problem to your friendship.
Show All Show Less
Asker

15 d
She recently told me how she feel is hard for her to put into words. But she said how she feels don't make sense to her so she bottle it up instead
Asker

15 d
We are close friends. She always randomly tell me she loves me. We always have heart to heart talks and cuddle and chill
tired__speck

15 d
Okay so this sounds terribly like a cliche but do you like her in more than a friend kind of way? Because the way you're describing her actions sound like she might be interested in you too.
Asker

15 d
Yea after 6 years things changed between us. We never were this affectionate between us in 5 years until this past July. But we both talk to other people
Asker

15 d
I started it. She was confused but liked it. She asked why first 3 days but didn't want me to stop. Now she expects it
tired__speck

15 d
Okay then I guess it's not too late you two will maybe do more than just cuddling and forehead kisses tho xD
sorry I'm just teasing but yeah I guess you guys might have a thing for each other now and it might escalate in a new direction which most likely won't be permanent unless you guys have real feelings involved which I kinda doubt you have but I guess enjoy the proximity for now!
But also be respectful to the friendship too I suppose.
Asker

15 d
We don't have boundaries either. Always grabbing and invading each other personal space. I'll try to kiss her jaw or lips next time i see her
tired__speck

15 d
I think you'll probably get a satisfactory reaction from her lol good luck!
Asker

15 d
Thanks
Asker

15 d
How do you think she would react?
tired__speck

15 d
Umm judging from what you've said about her, she will likely be a little conflicted about it a bit in the beginning but then she will probably ease into it and go along with it quite gladly perhaps.
Or I could be dead wrong and she might shove you into the nearest dumpster lol

Answer 2

Asker

She started to act sad for me to hug her. The last time she did it is when i learned she was lying. She told me something was wrong and she wasn't ok. So i kissed her on the forehead (for the first time) and she giggled. I asked few mins later was she ok. She told me nothing was wrong. She should just either ask for a hug or initiate it instead of just lying or getting really close to me and rubbing up against me

Answer 3

tired__speck

Sometimes it's hard to verbalize what we want and easier to express our wishes in a more physical manner. So that doesn't mean she was lying per se.

Answer 4

tired__speck

And if you really do dislike what she did/does, then maybe you should be upfront about it and state it clearly to her in a way so she doesn't misunderstand. If you are both good friends then I'm sure you will be able to settle the issue without causing problem to your friendship.

Answer 5

Asker

She recently told me how she feel is hard for her to put into words. But she said how she feels don't make sense to her so she bottle it up instead

Answer 6

Asker

We are close friends. She always randomly tell me she loves me. We always have heart to heart talks and cuddle and chill

Answer 7

tired__speck

Okay so this sounds terribly like a cliche but do you like her in more than a friend kind of way? Because the way you're describing her actions sound like she might be interested in you too.

Answer 8

Asker

Yea after 6 years things changed between us. We never were this affectionate between us in 5 years until this past July. But we both talk to other people

Answer 9

Asker

I started it. She was confused but liked it. She asked why first 3 days but didn't want me to stop. Now she expects it

Answer 10

tired__speck

Okay then I guess it's not too late you two will maybe do more than just cuddling and forehead kisses tho xD
sorry I'm just teasing but yeah I guess you guys might have a thing for each other now and it might escalate in a new direction which most likely won't be permanent unless you guys have real feelings involved which I kinda doubt you have but I guess enjoy the proximity for now!
But also be respectful to the friendship too I suppose.

Answer 11

Asker

We don't have boundaries either. Always grabbing and invading each other personal space. I'll try to kiss her jaw or lips next time i see her

Answer 12

tired__speck

I think you'll probably get a satisfactory reaction from her lol good luck!

Answer 13

Asker

Thanks

Answer 14

Asker

How do you think she would react?

Answer 15

tired__speck

Umm judging from what you've said about her, she will likely be a little conflicted about it a bit in the beginning but then she will probably ease into it and go along with it quite gladly perhaps.
Or I could be dead wrong and she might shove you into the nearest dumpster lol

Answer 16

JosyJosy | 1.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Don't overanalyze how people hug

Answer 17

Elvin33

Xper 2

Because she love you

Why when I hug her she hug me tightly and put her head on my chest and her ear directly over my heart?

AI Bot Choice

What Girls & Guys Said

Related myTakes