Why do women put on such an act when asked what they look for in a guy?

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They will say things like height and size dont matter, but we all know that a load of bullshit

Answer 1

DizzyDesii | 1.5K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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Im not gonna tell him what he wanna hear. Im gonna tell him what i want. In terms of height/size (since you brought that up), yes i want a guy 5’7-6’3. Preferably the shorter end since we’re closer in terms of kissing. In terms of size, my first ex was too much for oral and for sex (8+ Inches) and second ex was perfect for oral but not enough for sex (4 or less inches). So yes i’d like a circ dude whos 5-7 inches in length. Its just a lot of guys can't handle what we say we want. They get offended

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Answer 2

ririissleepy

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I personally dont think they put on an act. Me and my girl-friends talk about our "ideal man" all the time and sometimes i do the same with my guy friends as well. And I never thought that girls were putting on an act.

However height and size are not very heigh on the list of priorities. I believe men afe just the ones that like to focus on absulute values because it is more tangable and more hurtful to them.

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Lol, so a woman's denial of hypergamy is a man's fault. Shay a load of crap. When women talk to each other, they put on an act, they want to seem like they aren't shallow, materialistic and manipulative
ririissleepy

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Seems like you are not open to an actual discussion so i will leave it at that. Looks like you have already madeup your mind and are not open to considering a different point of view. I know you asked why woman put on an act my answer is: if one wants to generalize i would tell you, they don't.
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Im not open to a discussion about what women look for or what they say they look for. Im talking about the discrepancy between those
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They can keep being fake, I already know the game, I just wonder why they keep up the charade. Saying things they don't mean. Saying things like height, penis size and wealth dont matter, when those are exactly what they want
ririissleepy

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Well i didn't talk about what i look for in a guy now did i. I only commemted on the two examples you stated.

What I have been saying is that there is no "act" woman i know put on. We talk in detail about what we are looking for in a spouse.

If however you KNOW about cases in which woman have actually LIED to you about their wants i can only come up with 2 reasons atm.
1. Shame about the particular wants. Fear of being judged by the other party for their preferences. Which I guess sounding shallow is a part of.
2. Not wanting to cause any insecurities or possibly hurt the other party. For example telling an introvert that you prefere extroverted partners.
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Yes, and the things you usually state are just the politically correct things. The two things I started are high on the list, women just dont admit it
ririissleepy

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Well i am sorry for your bad experiences and that you are hurt by it but i can only tell you that if you want to generalize you are on the wrong track.
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I don't want your pity, generalizing is perfectly fine in this situation. Show me a woman that doesn't want a tall guy, with a big dick and lots of money
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I don't have bad experiences, I'm not dumb enough to fall for the act women put on
ririissleepy

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I mean it could be that you are just seeking out particular females and have very biased sampling. All i am saying is that you should probably look at your own criteria and than you will see that there is no need for females to put on an act because their list of things they want in a guy looks drastically different than what you have described.
ririissleepy

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Show me a woman... how about me.
Asker

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I don't seek out females, I don't date, I don't attempt it, I already know where I stand. Lol, another act
ririissleepy

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Well nevermind why even try. You say you already "know the game". Good luck with that
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Thanks, my theory is women say certain things to create simps they can use until they find mr. perfect
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I did get something from our conversation, didn't think about the shame aspect

Answer 3

Asker

Lol, so a woman's denial of hypergamy is a man's fault. Shay a load of crap. When women talk to each other, they put on an act, they want to seem like they aren't shallow, materialistic and manipulative

Answer 4

ririissleepy

Seems like you are not open to an actual discussion so i will leave it at that. Looks like you have already madeup your mind and are not open to considering a different point of view. I know you asked why woman put on an act my answer is: if one wants to generalize i would tell you, they don't.

Answer 5

Asker

Im not open to a discussion about what women look for or what they say they look for. Im talking about the discrepancy between those

Answer 6

Asker

They can keep being fake, I already know the game, I just wonder why they keep up the charade. Saying things they don't mean. Saying things like height, penis size and wealth dont matter, when those are exactly what they want

Answer 7

ririissleepy

Well i didn't talk about what i look for in a guy now did i. I only commemted on the two examples you stated.

What I have been saying is that there is no "act" woman i know put on. We talk in detail about what we are looking for in a spouse.

If however you KNOW about cases in which woman have actually LIED to you about their wants i can only come up with 2 reasons atm.
1. Shame about the particular wants. Fear of being judged by the other party for their preferences. Which I guess sounding shallow is a part of.
2. Not wanting to cause any insecurities or possibly hurt the other party. For example telling an introvert that you prefere extroverted partners.

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Asker

Yes, and the things you usually state are just the politically correct things. The two things I started are high on the list, women just dont admit it

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ririissleepy

Well i am sorry for your bad experiences and that you are hurt by it but i can only tell you that if you want to generalize you are on the wrong track.

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Asker

I don't want your pity, generalizing is perfectly fine in this situation. Show me a woman that doesn't want a tall guy, with a big dick and lots of money

Answer 11

Asker

I don't have bad experiences, I'm not dumb enough to fall for the act women put on

Answer 12

ririissleepy

I mean it could be that you are just seeking out particular females and have very biased sampling. All i am saying is that you should probably look at your own criteria and than you will see that there is no need for females to put on an act because their list of things they want in a guy looks drastically different than what you have described.

Answer 13

ririissleepy

Show me a woman... how about me.

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Asker

I don't seek out females, I don't date, I don't attempt it, I already know where I stand. Lol, another act

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ririissleepy

Well nevermind why even try. You say you already "know the game". Good luck with that

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Asker

Thanks, my theory is women say certain things to create simps they can use until they find mr. perfect

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Asker

I did get something from our conversation, didn't think about the shame aspect

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Isabellaxo

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Because there is the hope that it doesn't matter. When the right one comes along those aspects really just fade away. They don't matter as long as the person is right for oneself.
I think these "high standards" are "excuses" because often women get criticized when they aren't dating, hence this "justifies" it

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No, high standards are just what women want, so quit the bullshit act. These things dont disappear, they settle once they run out of time and select convenience and safety
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Women have these standards because they are hypergamous by nature
Isabellaxo

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If you already made up your mind, why are asking then?
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Asker

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I asked why they put on an act, not why they have the standards they have. Learn to read
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I already know they're all shallow, manipulative, hypergamous wretches, but they put on an act like they aren't

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Asker

No, high standards are just what women want, so quit the bullshit act. These things dont disappear, they settle once they run out of time and select convenience and safety

Answer 20

Asker

Women have these standards because they are hypergamous by nature

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Isabellaxo

If you already made up your mind, why are asking then?

Answer 22

Asker

I asked why they put on an act, not why they have the standards they have. Learn to read

Answer 23

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I already know they're all shallow, manipulative, hypergamous wretches, but they put on an act like they aren't

Why do women put on such an act when asked what they look for in a guy?

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