Which do girls prefer guys who show strong desire or guys who maintain good self control?

I'm curious on which you girls prefer

A.) That a man is confident in his desire for a girl and pursues what he wants aggressively without any hesitation. He shows that he wants you and doesn't pull any punches.

B.) The man that maintains emotional self control, keeping his hand close and only showing interest on a need to know basis. He plays hard to get making you work for his affection and showing it when he deems necessary.

For this we'll control that it's a man you're already attracted to physically. This is based solely on behavior and how he carries himself.