Is my old roommate asking too much from me?

Question

She caused bed bugs, she was messy and would never look after her cats because was always out all the time. She asked to look after a suitcase but thought would mean I have to get 2 subways and a bus I feel like i have done so much favours for her. What should i do just ignore her?

Answer 1

devil_8888 | 73 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Start saying NO instead of just ignoring

Answer 2

Agape93 | 665 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Tell her no

Asker

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I've done so many favours for her
Agape93

28 d
So what?
Asker

28 d
But the fact that she keeps asking me she's not taking a no for an answer
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Agape93

28 d
Tell her to stop otherwise you’ll drop contact with her. If she doesn’t stop, drop contact b
Asker

28 d
Completely oblivious of what she has caused in the summer. She caused bed bugs and I had to throw away my bed frame for $120 and her cat peed all over my clothes absolute joke she is
Agape93

28 d
I don’t need you to reiterate that. All I need to see is
“Yes I will do this” or “no I will not do this”. Exposition isn’t necessary
Asker

28 d
They all are flipping their shit at ne now
Agape93

28 d
Let em. Proves the point.
Asker

28 d
The minute I say "no" they will drop me. I've literally done so many favours for them I just dont get it
Agape93

28 d
They’re parasites. If they drop you, good. You don’t need leeches.

Answer 3

Asker

I've done so many favours for her

Answer 4

Agape93

So what?

Answer 5

Asker

But the fact that she keeps asking me she's not taking a no for an answer

Answer 6

Agape93

Tell her to stop otherwise you’ll drop contact with her. If she doesn’t stop, drop contact b

Answer 7

Asker

Completely oblivious of what she has caused in the summer. She caused bed bugs and I had to throw away my bed frame for $120 and her cat peed all over my clothes absolute joke she is

Answer 8

Agape93

I don’t need you to reiterate that. All I need to see is
“Yes I will do this” or “no I will not do this”. Exposition isn’t necessary

Answer 9

Asker

They all are flipping their shit at ne now

Answer 10

Agape93

Let em. Proves the point.

Answer 11

Asker

The minute I say "no" they will drop me. I've literally done so many favours for them I just dont get it

Answer 12

Agape93

They’re parasites. If they drop you, good. You don’t need leeches.

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