What it means? That a girl wants a guy who stands up for himself.
Let me give you an example. If a girl says "Hey wanna go out tomorrow? 9 PM at this café" and you go "Sure! Looking forward to it" and you're standing at the café next day at 10 PM when you get the following message: "Ah I totally forgot"
Then that's a situation where most guys go "Oh it's okay I understand, is everything okay?" etc.
What I'd assume a girl indirectly wants in this situation is for the guy to confront her about it. To not just be a pushover, but show some confidence and self worth. If someone offers to set up plans and then 1. Doesn't warn you and say "Hey I can't today, sorry" but waits till the last minute to cancel and 2. Doesn't even say sorry. Then that's both disrespectful to the guys time and him as a person. The response "I forgot" is such a BS response, no one sets up plans for tomorrow and then suddenly realizes an hour after the hangout was due, says they forgot it and doesn't even apologize.
This is where a response like "Well, you setup plans and I've been here for an hour waiting for you. My time's valuable, and I'm not gonna keep this up" would show confidence. And that's what I think a girl would subconsciously want in that situation; Obviously no one wants anyone to confront them because it feels uncomfortable. But after a while, if a guy doesn't confront the girl about her BS, the girl will start to notice that she can get away with anything if the guy doesn't call them out on their BS and shows them that their time is valuable. And then everything goes downhill from there.
Here are things I want my boyfriend to call me out on:
-guilt tripping/manipulation
-being overly jealous
-invading his life or taking up too much of his time
-making him feel like he can't or shouldn't express himself
-being too physical or touchy
People make mistakes, and if someone crosses a line, the othet person should tell them. That's how communication works, and that's what keeps little things from turning into big things. It keeps bad qualities from turning into abusive relationships. Don't be afraid to call someone out!
Personally, I would make this request if I wanted a guy to really understand me. It shows me he does when he can see through the B. S. like when girls say: "I'm fine" or "It's fine."
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