Does it mean anything if a guy watched during 2020 90% of my story updates on instagram (I updated my story often) ?

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I was active last year on instagram and my crush rarely missed my story updates and we’re not friends or anything.

Answer 1

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Usually when I like a girl I check out almost all her stories. So he could be into you OR he may just be a very active on Instagram.

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by the way he has posted some similar stuff than be that could just be coincidences. What do u think... coincidences or hidden responses lol?
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For example I posted a pic of me wearing a big black scarf around my neck on my snapchat story. He 2 days later posted wearing also black scarf around his neck. He posted two videos of him wearing that scarf on his story update and he also posted 5 pics of the same outfit on instagram of him wearing that same scarf. He has in the past posted similar stuff than me on instagram.

by the way he was posing in the pictures indoors, sitting around table in resteraunt. Who wears scarfs indoors lol. That made me think that it was maybe on purpose.

We used to talk in the DM’s but not for a while now.
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Some time ago I posted a ig story offering condolences to my friend whose family member passed away. I used words that not a lot of people use in that context.

After a while he was offering condolences to someone and he used same words as me when offering condolences lol (he posted a ig story)
He used same phrase/words as me.
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One time we talked in the dm’s that I initiated (I have couple times initiated contact with him). I asked couple questions. Then After that I didn’t initiated contact because I was waiting for him to dm me. After a while he posted a story update where he put ask me questions tag lol. He has never done that in the past.
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I shared a funny screenshot of my friends instagram story that was about a funny question that someone had asked her in the ask me tag.
The question said "what do you think of cow milk. Isn't cow milk only meant for veal cows."

My friends could've easily thought that I was the one who asked that question when I shared the scrheenshot and posted it on my instagram story

Anyway exact week later my crush posts a story about him holding a goat milk package and asking if he should try it. He also mentioned that he's tried cow milk and camel mill before.
departedthe

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I think you are overanalyzing things (people tend to do that when they are into someone). There is really no way of knowing i fthese are coincidences or secret responses. My advice is to dm him occasionally for a short convo. If he is into you he will most likely try to initiate convo with you by dming you first in the future (unless he is very introverted)
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I have responded to his story 4 times so far and he hasn’t done the same back. He seemed to like to talk to me and our conversations was nice. He also carried the conversation... I don't know he is kinda shy/introverted. I stopped reaching out to him and we haven’t talked for a long time now. What should I do...
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? :)
departedthe

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I am thinking that most likely he isn't into you, he just seems to be friendly and nice. If I am really into a gal I would usually be the one initiating the conversation.
But then again who knows

Answer 2

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by the way he has posted some similar stuff than be that could just be coincidences. What do u think... coincidences or hidden responses lol?

Answer 3

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For example I posted a pic of me wearing a big black scarf around my neck on my snapchat story. He 2 days later posted wearing also black scarf around his neck. He posted two videos of him wearing that scarf on his story update and he also posted 5 pics of the same outfit on instagram of him wearing that same scarf. He has in the past posted similar stuff than me on instagram.

by the way he was posing in the pictures indoors, sitting around table in resteraunt. Who wears scarfs indoors lol. That made me think that it was maybe on purpose.

We used to talk in the DM’s but not for a while now.

Answer 4

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Some time ago I posted a ig story offering condolences to my friend whose family member passed away. I used words that not a lot of people use in that context.

After a while he was offering condolences to someone and he used same words as me when offering condolences lol (he posted a ig story)
He used same phrase/words as me.

Answer 5

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One time we talked in the dm’s that I initiated (I have couple times initiated contact with him). I asked couple questions. Then After that I didn’t initiated contact because I was waiting for him to dm me. After a while he posted a story update where he put ask me questions tag lol. He has never done that in the past.

Answer 6

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I shared a funny screenshot of my friends instagram story that was about a funny question that someone had asked her in the ask me tag.
The question said "what do you think of cow milk. Isn't cow milk only meant for veal cows."

My friends could've easily thought that I was the one who asked that question when I shared the scrheenshot and posted it on my instagram story

Anyway exact week later my crush posts a story about him holding a goat milk package and asking if he should try it. He also mentioned that he's tried cow milk and camel mill before.

Answer 7

departedthe

I think you are overanalyzing things (people tend to do that when they are into someone). There is really no way of knowing i fthese are coincidences or secret responses. My advice is to dm him occasionally for a short convo. If he is into you he will most likely try to initiate convo with you by dming you first in the future (unless he is very introverted)

Answer 8

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I have responded to his story 4 times so far and he hasn’t done the same back. He seemed to like to talk to me and our conversations was nice. He also carried the conversation... I don't know he is kinda shy/introverted. I stopped reaching out to him and we haven’t talked for a long time now. What should I do...

Answer 9

departedthe

I am thinking that most likely he isn't into you, he just seems to be friendly and nice. If I am really into a gal I would usually be the one initiating the conversation.
But then again who knows

Answer 10

FunnyShadow

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He's obviously interested in you. You can't tell if it's just friendly or romantic though just by that.

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Why do you think he’s obviously interested lol?
FunnyShadow

14 d
I don't check out Instagram stories of people I don't care about
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14 d
I have responded to his story 4 times so far and he hasn’t done the same back. He seemed to like to talk to me and our conversations was nice. He also carried the conversation... I don't know he is kinda shy/introverted. I stopped reaching out to him and we haven’t talked for a long time now. What should I do...
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FunnyShadow

14 d
Reach out to him and maybe after a while tell him how you feel about him?
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14 d
So he could be interrsted in me but from reason not contact me?
FunnyShadow

14 d
It's hard to guess anything. Be an adult, confess your feelings and you'll know exactly how he feels.

Answer 11

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Why do you think he’s obviously interested lol?

Answer 12

FunnyShadow

I don't check out Instagram stories of people I don't care about

Answer 13

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I have responded to his story 4 times so far and he hasn’t done the same back. He seemed to like to talk to me and our conversations was nice. He also carried the conversation... I don't know he is kinda shy/introverted. I stopped reaching out to him and we haven’t talked for a long time now. What should I do...

Answer 14

FunnyShadow

Reach out to him and maybe after a while tell him how you feel about him?

Answer 15

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So he could be interrsted in me but from reason not contact me?

Answer 16

FunnyShadow

It's hard to guess anything. Be an adult, confess your feelings and you'll know exactly how he feels.

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Lizzzzz288283 | 50 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

No not really to be honest

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14 d
So it’s common thing 😅?

Answer 18

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So it’s common thing 😅?

Does it mean anything if a guy watched during 2020 90% of my story updates on instagram (I updated my story often) ?

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