None talkative or boring?

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Essentially a girl from work has been texting me, she really likes me and I quite like her back, but when she texts she is generally always the one to text first which isn't a problem for me at all, would say that's a bonus if a girl does that. The issue is she generally never seems to have much to say, I always feel like I'm the one keeping the conversation going and ask the questions, she doesn't seem to ask me many questions back. I feel like I'm running out of things to say to her to be honest and don't know what to talk to her about.

Was wondering if this is common behaviour or is she just a crap at texting.

Answer 1

Anonymous

I’m like that as well but I’m not much of a talkative person. However I pepped my spirits up and start conversation with people that I’m interested in texting. I don’t like wasting energy either. Most introverts I know are quiet and the same way.

Asker

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I personally wouldn't consider her an introvert in person, she's quite the handful I guess you could say which is why I'm confused by the way she texts haha.
Opinion Owner

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Lol I hear that a lot about me and I had to laugh at your comment lol Yeah I do that at times and don’t know why I do it. If I’m interested in a person and the vibe is right then we can have a great time. Texting is a whole other ball game lol I’m just not use to talking much at all so I’m working on it.
Opinion Owner

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I have a wild side on me
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Asker

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Haha I appreciate it, perhaps this girl from work is like that too then.
Opinion Owner

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I can totally relate from experience but I’m working on communication this year

Answer 2

Asker

I personally wouldn't consider her an introvert in person, she's quite the handful I guess you could say which is why I'm confused by the way she texts haha.

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

Lol I hear that a lot about me and I had to laugh at your comment lol Yeah I do that at times and don’t know why I do it. If I’m interested in a person and the vibe is right then we can have a great time. Texting is a whole other ball game lol I’m just not use to talking much at all so I’m working on it.

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

I have a wild side on me

Answer 5

Asker

Haha I appreciate it, perhaps this girl from work is like that too then.

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

I can totally relate from experience but I’m working on communication this year

Answer 7

Anonymous

Maybe she doesn’t have anything to say just like you don’t have anything to say.

Asker

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But then why does she always pop up every day? Unfortunately can't do anything with her here because of lockdown. I get what you are saying but feel like I'm always the one talking if you get me.
Opinion Owner

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She could be shy but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like talking to you.
Moonlovespirit

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I agree
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Asker

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Yeah guess that makes sense, thanks for replying.
Opinion Owner

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You’re welcome 😊

Answer 8

Asker

But then why does she always pop up every day? Unfortunately can't do anything with her here because of lockdown. I get what you are saying but feel like I'm always the one talking if you get me.

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

She could be shy but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like talking to you.

Answer 10

Moonlovespirit

I agree

Answer 11

Asker

Yeah guess that makes sense, thanks for replying.

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

You’re welcome 😊

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