I do not know what u have come through or how u have been treated , but I am sorry to hear that it made u so much hurt !! People are really mean , I know that firsthand !!I am not shallow and I am not approaching women just because people push me too. I really want a genuine relationship amd i do that out of sincere interest. But as I said I am unattractive and yes relationships take a lot of effort , time , energy and they r perplex. So yeah maube that was not meant for me. They r difficult indeed.
You just need to be with the right kind of people with a like-minded mentality. I never said you were, but we're taught to do wrong as supposed to what is right. I get what you're saying and as a believer in Christ, I know first hand of the impurity of the world. As I said, it's not so much because you are physically unattractive, you have to first learn to love yourself as a person and remember that God loves you also. Not for you to have self-love, but to remember that you are worthy of love and you just may have to go out away from where you are find that way. You may be looking in the wrong places.
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