My crush called me "queen" in a conversation (I'm 17M, she's 17F), is she trying to imply anything?

Question

Basically I've been snapping a really cute girl from school for a few days now, and it's been going really well. I've never talked to her irl, but we have a few mutual friends, and I've had a good time getting to know her since I know we have things in common. I've experimented flirting with her a little bit and she's received it pretty well, and we have somewhat of a banter now. She's even started sending me videos or herself talking/reacting to what I say as opposed to normally sending walls of text back and forth, which I take as a pretty good sign, since she's opened up to me a bit and is comfortable actually talking.

The other day when I brought up the topic of sleep schedules, I explained why I disappear now and then at night. Pretty much I'm trying to fix my sleep schedule for school, and I've been doing a lot better recently in that area since I'm getting a consistent 10+ hours of sleep. She replied back saying "ok queen" with a smile.

I've heard that nicknames/the way people address you can depict a lot about what they think you as. Now I don't know her irl like I said so I don't know if she does this with a lot of people, and obviously I'm a guy, so I'm confused. Really hope she's not friend zoning me lmao.

Answer 1

KrakenAttackin | 430 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I would come back with "Queen? WTF"?

This sounds like a shit test, don't fail it

Asker

17 d
I hope not lol, I already tried starting another conversation with her on a different topic and basically ignored what she said and she hasn't replied yet. Would that be considered failing the test? ;v
KrakenAttackin

17 d
Yes. Hit her right back with something like "WTF did you mean queen"? Show your annoyance and don't let her get away with taking shit.

Answer 2

Asker

I hope not lol, I already tried starting another conversation with her on a different topic and basically ignored what she said and she hasn't replied yet. Would that be considered failing the test? ;v

Answer 3

KrakenAttackin

Yes. Hit her right back with something like "WTF did you mean queen"? Show your annoyance and don't let her get away with taking shit.

Answer 4

Catphish

Xper 2

Do you give off effeminate vibes? It’s either she’s treating you like a gay friend or she has terrible social cues and thinks she’s being clever.

Asker

17 d
pretty sure I've done a good job of not doing that, not going to make the same mistake twice. I tried to come across as confident and goal-oriented with witty humor. I've reinforced the fact multiple times now, hinting that I see her as a girl, and I've complimented her appearance a few times. She's also tried introducing me to her best friend (who I actually already knew lmao, but I take this as a really good sign). A previous reply stated that they think she was trying to give me a shit test, but as a guy with not much experience there's not much I know about this kind of thing. Mind giving me thoughts on that?
Catphish

17 d
I’m assuming they meant a mind game, but not sure. I think this is just a way of her teasing a little, which I guess could be a mind game I suppose, since she’s trying to get a reaction out of you. If you take it offensively and get defensive then she can’t feel like she can be playful or silly with you, which is very important. It would also show an insecurity. If you respond with something of a similar silly nature that welcomes her to keep teasing with you in such a manner. I’d say it’s kind of past that at this point since you ignored it and didn’t react. Just leave it at that and hopefully you’ll know for next time and act accordingly.

Answer 5

Asker

pretty sure I've done a good job of not doing that, not going to make the same mistake twice. I tried to come across as confident and goal-oriented with witty humor. I've reinforced the fact multiple times now, hinting that I see her as a girl, and I've complimented her appearance a few times. She's also tried introducing me to her best friend (who I actually already knew lmao, but I take this as a really good sign). A previous reply stated that they think she was trying to give me a shit test, but as a guy with not much experience there's not much I know about this kind of thing. Mind giving me thoughts on that?

Answer 6

Catphish

I’m assuming they meant a mind game, but not sure. I think this is just a way of her teasing a little, which I guess could be a mind game I suppose, since she’s trying to get a reaction out of you. If you take it offensively and get defensive then she can’t feel like she can be playful or silly with you, which is very important. It would also show an insecurity. If you respond with something of a similar silly nature that welcomes her to keep teasing with you in such a manner. I’d say it’s kind of past that at this point since you ignored it and didn’t react. Just leave it at that and hopefully you’ll know for next time and act accordingly.

Answer 7

memelover

Xper 1

she's from your school but you don't know her irl?

Asker

17 d
I've seen her around here or there at school before the virus, but I've never actually talked to her in person since we haven't had classes together.

Answer 8

Asker

I've seen her around here or there at school before the virus, but I've never actually talked to her in person since we haven't had classes together.

My crush called me "queen" in a conversation (I'm 17M, she's 17F), is she trying to imply anything?

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