With owning a business, I barely have time to date. Am I a bad person for only wanting a one night stand?

[heatherlou]

Of course not.
At different times in you life, you have different priorities. Right now, your priority is your business. In my opinion it's smart that you've decided where you want to dedicate your time and are open with the people you may get involved with.
Just be open to the idea that at some point your priorities may change. Whilst only being interested in casual or one time things is absolutely fine - listen to your gut as well if it does at some point tell you to pursue something further.

[mindNsoul]

Just be honest and upfront about it and don't lead anyone on. If a woman rejects you because she doesn't want that. You would at least have a clear guilt free conscious as an honest man. Even though it might hurt. Just date women who also want one night stands. Don't decieve or manipulate someone to just have sex with them.

[Anonymous]

You dont owe anyone anything except for yourself and your family. Don't add to that list if you dont want any more. Luckily women are not requiring much for sex these days. Somehow feminism has caused them to devalue themselves to the point where they feel that if they dont suck your cock and swallow it then you won't want anything to do with them. this is great for guys and terrible for them but that is not you problem. Don't let anyone guilt you into anything

[ShadezMcgee]

No, you aren't. You are working with what you can offer as an individual while maintaining focus on what you desire. So long as you are being transparent and not leading anyone on, you are not doing anything wrong.

[psychoticanimallover]

No, one night stands are pretty common and acceptable. The only grey area is when the other person thinks it’s more but if, as you say, they are perfectly aware, then I don’t see a problem. If the cows are giving away their milk, may as well have a few sips.

[Sessy]

@C2THEJ89 It's not whether I think you're a bad person, it's whether you think you are. What are your core morals, values, or beliefs? For example, I would consider it bad if I did that because it goes against what I believe in. I would probably wait until I was available to date someone. If you're asking whether it's bad, it's because deep down you think it is and you need to ask yourself why?

[SashaAMB]

You can want what you want. You are only a bad person if you hide your intentions in order to sleep with someone who otherwise would not agree to a ONS.

[DesolateRain]

No, of course not.

Just make sure the person you're having it with is wanting the exact same thing.

[kibbenkat]

Not at all. I'd do the same thing. Just make sure she knows your intentions (or lack thereof)

[Anonymous]

Yeah as a business owner myself

1. Work more and cut out the women
2. Work more and hire staff
3. Work less and date again

It's the best way

[Alpha09]

Not at all, just tell them exactly what you're looking for beforehand.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with that as long as you are upfront and honest about what you want.

[clampfan101]

If you’re not ready for a relationship yet, don’t have sex.

[Avicenna]

No, as long as you’re honest about it