If you feel sexual tension with a girl, is it likely she’s oblivious to it and only sees you as a friend?

People can tell when someone likes them. I have acted intentionally oblivious when I did not feel a mutual return of the feelings but kept wanting to be friends. Rejecting a man isn’t great for the friendship as it hurts his ego. So I usually tried avoiding rejecting but pretending I wasn’t aware. My male friends always thought I had no idea how much they wanted me. I always knew.
Women when they like a guy. They want him to ask her out. They are going to give him opportunities.
For example. Let’s say I’m standing at a traffic light waiting to cross. And a guy also is standing there right next to me. If I am interested, I would remove my headphones out of my ears and move closer. Hence giving an opportunity. If I leave my headphones in. Clearly I am not interested. The point is an interested woman doesn’t give the man obstacles. The obstacles in this situation would be the headphones. I removed the headphones to rid any obstacles. When women are keen there will be no obstacles per se. It will be easy.
Women actually are the ones who choose if they want a person or not. I know men think they are by initiating things. But it’s women who decide if they want it to be initiated or not. If they do, they will do everything it make initiation easy. For example the old classic of dropping a handkerchief so he picks it up and starts a conversation with her, he thinks he initiated but she gave him the opportunity. Women actually still do this in society. Just not the handkerchief.
I would think it would depend on how obvious the sexual tension is. I think that's different in different cases. It may be less obvious if someone is better at masking it or people that are less observant of signs and signals than others.
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