Do majority of women like assholes or?

[Anonymous]

Personally, I prefer people who I can joke around with; I've never been attracted to guys with loud, brash personalities. The thing is, though, those types of guys are really easy to read and their outgoingness caters to girls who feel uncomfortable making the first move. There's also the fact that less-assertive guys often express interest in their female friends due to the level of familiarity between them; they're much more approachable than other girls. This can be seen as a huge violation of a friendship by the girl but a guy might see it as just another romantic refusal. A lot of my guy friends who have expressed interest in me in the past saw me make bad choices in my romantic life and as my friends, they were entitled to their own opinions of those choices. But many of them mistook my eventual refusals to see them as "more than friends" as a sign that I was only attracted to assholes. in my opinion, there has to be a healthy medium between sweet/kind and just outgoing; it's important to take a step back and think about what qualities "assholes" have apart from the general asshole-yness. I can go out on a limb here and say that no girl is attracted to someone because they're a bad person, but many are attracted to qualities like honestly, aloofness (in moderation), and outgoingness. Just my opinion, hope that helps!

[Hannah_le]

Nope I like good guys because someone who’s truly honest , not fake , not bringing u down and etc. I don’t like getting my feelings played and would be in a serious relationship lol.

[NamerOfStars]

Both. As a rule, few people like assholes. Women (as a rule) are attracted to assertive men, and the line between "assertive" and "asshole" is blurry at best. Unfortunately, our society rarely tells women the importance of picking partners with their brains, rather than their genitals, and so what would be better relationships are never formed.

Meanwhile, young men are told that the best way to win a woman's affection is with kindness and respect- a prospect that may make you a better husband, but makes you, if anything, LESS attractive to women, as they're more likely to see you as weak-willed and wishy-washy. So their methods don't work, they realize they've been lied to all their lives, and they get very angry- wouldn't you, in their position?

[Shihab-91]

Here is why assholes always win:
- nice guys are shy while assholes are more confident therefore they make the first move before nice guy and win her.

- nice guys think by being nice will make her likes him, while assholes have more experience when to be nice and when not. By being nice all the time she will assume that she controls you and you are a loser who will always work to please her.

- being nice won't help when she break up with you yes she might realize what she lost but women have huge ego they won't come back ( sorry but it's the reality )
- summary learn when to be nice and when to be asshole.

[DavidFox]

in my opinion women like good men. They don’t like assholes because assholes are selfish and disrespectful. They don’t like nice guys who lie and can’t stand up for themselves. They do like good men who have character, discipline, but are not pushovers.

[Anonymous]

Women don't "like" assholes, but they are sexually attracted to them. That's a scientifically proven fact.

[Anonymous]

assholes always gets the girls. If my dad was too nice to my mom. My mom would of rejected him.

[Iron_Man]

It very well could be

[zxczxc34]

i dont think women like ashols