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Work and before she was fine with us being friends but I fucked it up and now she doesn’t want anything to do with me
Why how did you fuck it up? Have you said sorry?
I think I creeped her out unintentionally. I will say she never made it seem like I was making her uncomfortable. She would start conversations with me sometimes and I can't talk to her or I could lose my job
there's a lot more to the whole situation also
More to the story but it’s too long to type in a reply
I've got time. Go on :)
Sorry I've been busy but to make it short. We went on a date once and she wasn't feeling it but i was so I kept talking to her. She didn't mind because she even said she liked spending time with me but as friends. We stayed friends and I was hoping maybe one day something would change maybe. One point I thought it was because there was a week where we started talking a lot and we were both being flirty and ended up sexting. I ruined that because I didn't know what I was doing and I turned her off but she wasn't a bitch about it. She could tell I didn't do it often. by the way this girl was literally my first date and my first time sexting with someone. It was after that I noticed we didn't talk as much anymore or maybe I was just thinking that I don't know. We hungout a couple more times after that but still nothing more than friends. I shouldn't of done this now that I think of it but on our first day back at work after our vacations. I left flowers on her desk with a note saying something like "Beautiful flowers for a beautiful girl. I hope these brighten your day." I knew she wasn't interested but I wanted to do it for her and I thought she would still appreciate it.
A month or two later I asked her to hangout and she basically cut it off with me. She said she didn't want to lead me on and thought I was getting the wrong idea when we hanged out she said she still wanted to be friends at work. I stopped texting her and only talked to her at work. Fast forward to now and I've been told I have to stay away from her when she's in the building and not talk to her. I was reported by her and 2 others.
I apparently spend a lot of time around where she works. I literally am working everytime im up there. I spent a little longer maybe than needed but it wasn't extreme amount maybe like a couple 2 or 3 more mins and it was only to try to run into her and talk to her for a min. What pisses me off about it is she acted like nothing was wrong ever. That same day she even was starting conversations with me. She asked me the previous day to play in this staff volleyball game that day but I couldn't at last minute. She even texted me asking where I was making it seem like she wanted me to play and then goes behind my back and complains like im threatening her or something. I didn't mean to creep her out and I really didn't think I was. The thing is too she still follows me on social media which I dont understand why. I really want to flip her off next time I see her if its ever.
Long story but basically it’s never going to happen with me and her
Why is it never gonna happen?
She wants nothing to do with me
Usually this has a lot to do with not having many options. Guys get too fixated on one girl for that reason. In a relationship with a great girl that’s fair enough, I’m not saying be a dickhead and be disloyal. But being fixated on one girl you’re not dating yet is a mistake.
You really just have to make an effort to talk to other women.As soon as you connect with another one, the first one is gonna seem insignificant for a while.Always remember that there's billions of people out there.There's always prettier, smarter, funnier, sweeter, cuter women out there.There's more hot asses and tasty pussies.Just choose to take that one off of the pedestal so you can find a better one.