Is my friend who friend zoned me jealous of me having another close friend? Why?

[Anonymous]

Me and this girl (A) have been friends for slightly over a year now. She has rejected me probably three times and knows how I feel about her. We even stopped talking and hanging out for 5 months but then started hanging out again, before she left for Germany. I gave her my hoodie before she left and she started texting me everyday. I asked her and she said she just likes me as a friend, so I told her that we should stop talking and then she said I still want to be friends, (I did too) and we agreed on talking every once in a while to stay in touch while she was gone. She would do things like post videos of herself in my hoodie, I’m sure it was to get my attention, and when I said I’m glad you wear it, she said yeah 🖤. Fast forward a couple months and she is now back and it’s been 2 weeks. We talked about hanging out with our best friends who were dating each other up until I found out my best friend raped one of my friends, who is also a girl (B). Before (A) found out, (I thought she knew since it was all over Instagram) , I asked her to hangout Saturday and she replied two hours later saying I can’t. I then asked for Friday but she said she still hasn’t seen one of her closest friends yet so we could probably hang within the next few weeks. I thought she was hesitant to hang because of the situation with our best friends, so I told her my stance on it and she didn’t even know, not even her best friend who was dating my best friend knew. I then told girl (B) about this and she then reached out to girl (A) explaining that she is my close friend and wanted to clarify what happened so that girl (A)’s best friend would feel content. They started talking a lot, still do (it’s been 3 days) and girl (B), who I know likes me, would talk to her a lot about me and bring me up a lot in conversation. Girl (A) then hit me up and asked if I had spring break next week and suggested that we maybe hangout. I feel like girl (A) who I have known longer than girl (B) is jealous?

Girl (A) might have some feelings

Vote A

Girl (A) still likes me as a friend

Vote B

Updates:

[btbc92]

Dude, you men are crazy and so are some of the girls. There is no such thing as the FRIEND ZONE. You're too selfish! If you don't give a damn about her and only care about a sexual relationship (gonna call it for what it is because it's not entirely innocent), go with this other girl. She never rejected you. She always has feelings, but feelings don't always mean your compatible. Of course, she may feel jealous because she knows your having this other girl as a replacement to hop and bed. You don't want a friend. You want somebody in bed with you, and you're using "friendship" to find somebody comfortable to sleep with. That is what hurts and it puts women backed up to the corner. she is not going to feel great when she now finds out what kind of guy you really are. Somebody who she may start regretting developing close emotional bonds and maybe feelings for. You are just TEENAGERS. YOu are way TOO YOUNG. Unless you getting married at 18, stop playing with women's feelings.

"I asked her and she said she just likes me as a friend, so I told her that we should stop talking..." This is you people's problem and then get mad and bitter because you hate the truth. Your SELFISH. If you want to stop talking to people who don't give you what you want, then you have no business trying friends with her. Cut this girl out of your life before you torture her more. She said she just wants to be FRIENDS. That doesn't mean she doesn't see you as anything more. She is too young! We are too young. We need a few years to be around you first to determine if we desire something serious. Teenagehood is a tie to discover who you are as a person. Even as a young adult unless you ready for marriage and something permanent. You are requesting a girl to give up everything just for a sexual union that 9/10x don't last because it's just fun and games and experience to you. Don't fool around. Even if she says she feels that same, does she HAVE to date you? No. You need time to develop. Stop calling these women your friend when you're looking for opportunities to experience. Not actually dating. If you're looking for dates, tell the girl that from day 1. She is rejecting you 3 times because you are desperate as hell, it's a turn-off, and your pressuring women. You can't force a girl or a woman to be attracted to you. It has to be natural. And you pushing is why she is conflicted. She's losing a "Friend" because she won't let him potentially be in panties. You may say "OH, I don't just want sex".

Trust me, if she isn't interested in sex, you wouldn't bother kid. She is not going to hang out with you. It isn't because she is jealous. It is because your making her out to be a bad woman because she won't replicate what you wanted. I know because I had it done to me. The worse mistake I ever made and which I still regret is allowing MYSELF to be used, emotionally abused, and lied to by boys who are only interested in basically one thing to the point that will shame me in front of others. Which they did. She needs to stop being your doormat and walk away. Leave this girl alone. She is not your friend, you are definitely not her friend, and neither is she is your potential. If she is it will be at the expense of her personal freedom, romantic rights, and personal happiness she can share with somebody better who won't treat her or other girls this way. You already found somebody who is interested in you in that way. Leave her alone and give her peace.

[Caunsos]

You were emotional boyfriend benefits with out her have to deal with the responsibilities of have a boyfriend. Now you have options it harder for take what she wants from you.

If someone friendzones and doesn't support you entering a healthy relationship, they are not your friend.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe she’s not attracted to you

[Avicenna]

Sounds jealous to me