Yesterday we barely messaged each other then I gave her a call at night and she was super short with me, so I hung up and ask if she was ok later that night. She had a bad day but didn’t wanna talk about it and went to bed. Today she calls me asking for help and hangs up frustrated. Now she texts me back an hour later saying “sorry for being rude”. I don’t wanna say it’s OK like I usually do because it’s really not. I also don’t want to be a dick and start a fight. What do I say? I wanna be stern and tell her not to be so rude, but not come off as an ass.